Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Politics and Other Controversies
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
View Poll Results: Agree or disagree: Don't Ask Don't Tell should be repealed.
Strongly agree 58 59.18%
Agree 19 19.39%
Neither agree nor disagree 5 5.10%
Disagree 8 8.16%
Strongly disagree 8 8.16%
Voters: 98. You may not vote on this poll

Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 02-03-2010, 12:21 AM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,665,061 times
Reputation: 7943

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by William McKinley View Post
I'm afraid i'm going to have to go against the majority of voters in this thread and say that I don't want to repeal DADT. If you're serving your country in the armed forces, there is no reason for you to divulge your sexuality.
You don't even have to "divulge your sexuality" in order to be discharged. If you enter a same-sex civil union or marriage, it's grounds for discharge. If you're seen at a gay event or at a gay bar, it's grounds for discharge.

Heterosexuals "divulge their sexuality" whenever they talk about their boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, or wives. I think homosexuals should have the same right.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 02-03-2010, 12:45 AM
 
1,175 posts, read 1,785,557 times
Reputation: 1182
Don't Ask, Don't tell is an asinine policy.
We should, MUST go back to the policy of asking right up front...and if the prospective recruit answers "yes" then they can NOT be admitted. Homosexuals should NOT be allowed to serve in the military.
Homosexuality is completely inconsistent with the core military values of Honor, Courage and Commitment.
There is no job in the military that Homosexuals can do, that is not already being done by normal people. (yes, that's right....Homosexuality is NOT normal behavior)
The military is NOT there, does NOT exist merely as a place where Homosexuals can go and be fulfilled.....have meaning in their personal lives.
The notion that the military is, or should be a perfect reflection of society is a false one. The military has higher standards. We wear uniforms, we demand that people meet a basic modicum of physical reediness and follow the chain of command, obey the lawful orders of those placed over them. This is not the case in civil society...even so....in civil society the issue of homosexuals in society is far from settled...their place in society (if they even have one at all) is NOT a sure thing....Many states have voted down notions of "gay marriage". Efforts to push Homosexuals into the military openly or otherwise is totally politically motivated.
In what possible way will having homos in the military make the military better?
In what possible way will homos make the job easier?
How will we handle issues like "partners"....Married heteros get to deploy and are housed w/ their partners....how will we handle this issue w/ homos? What about the HIV tests....How will it be when the units openly homosexual troop is standing in line for the HIV test?.....How will this not single that person out? Why would this person then not charge the military with further discrimination???
Homosexuals have shown themselves to be far more likely to have multiple partners than Heterosexuals and far more likely to have unprotected sex than heteros...In what possibly way is that type of loose and hopelessly indecent sexual activity consistent with Honor? How is that possibly consistent with higher levels of character and selflessness? Do people SERIOUSLY want the military to bend over for the q/u/e/e/r sexual proclivities of a small loudmouthed group of individuals who expect the military to set aside everything they've built in the last 240 some odd years...in order to admit a few very strange people and their "sexual lifestyle"...This is not what the military is about. The argument over nature or nurture is far from over as well. Even if Homosexuality was pure "nature"....so might be stupidity....or there could be a bad "criminal" gene....We would not let those people in either, so that argument is hollow too. The military has standards. Standards that are MUCH higher than in civil society. If you're over weight, over age and can't see....you don't get a slot at flight school....period. You can't be a fighter pilot, we have standards that we uphold because they help us find the right people who are best at completing the missions of the military with the least number of casualties . The military is NOT there to obit around you and all your whims and desires. We don't let you in if you don't meet the standard. Those with criminal pasts, gang tat's and what not are not let in. Why admit homosexuals? Only the homosexual political agenda will benefit from having homosexuals in the military...no one else will benefit at all.... How about security clearances.....How about the endless embarrassment this will cause....the horridly foolish scenes of homosexual service members engaging in some nasty act of "public affection" (seemingly the whole point of much in the homosexual agenda in the first place.....shocking the public for the sheer fun of it...now...how can such a stupid self centered and patently gross activity fit in the military?)
Really people...is any of this the military's job??? Is this really our mission? Sexuality is NOT the military's mission. Our mission is war-fighting. Let the left-wing college campuses play games with "equalizing" homosexual political agendas with normal society, it's not the military's business. For many centuries the military forces of the world have struggled to eliminate variables and unknowns from the battle space....and now for completely spurious reasons we are being forced to introduce the exact unknown that causes humanity the most headache...that of sexuality. There simply is NO place for this silliness in the service. Think about it....think what the word SERVICE really means....it means serving the NATION, the CONSTITUTION fighting for your brothers...not lusting after them....it means serving and protecting the weak....not using politics and pressure to get something for your self....not serving yourself at the expense of others..not serving your q/u/e/e/r sexual political goals but thinking of others and DENYING yourself.
NO. Of course not....Homosexuals should NOT be allowed in the military. Ask, and keep out.

Last edited by Happy Cells; 02-03-2010 at 01:02 AM..
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 12:50 AM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,665,061 times
Reputation: 7943
Quote:
Originally Posted by Happy Cells View Post
Don't Ask, Don't tell is an asinine policy.
We should, MUST go back to the policy of asking right up front...and if the prospective recruit answers "yes" then they can NOT be admitted. Homosexuals should NOT be allowed to serve in the military.
Homosexuality is completely inconsistent with the core military values of Honor, Courage and Commitment.
There is no job in the military that Homosexuals can do, that is not already being done by normal people. (yes, that's right....Homosexuality is NOT normal behavior)
The military is NOT there, does NOT exist merely as a place where Homosexuals can go and be fulfilled.....have meaning in their personal lives.
The notion that the military is, or should be a perfect reflection of society is a false one. The military has higher standards. We wear uniforms, we demand that people meet a basic modicum of physical reediness and follow the chain of command, obey the lawful orders of those placed over them. This is not the case in civil society...even so....in civil society the issue of homosexuals in society is far from settled...their place in society (if they even have one at all) is NOT a sure thing....Many states have voted down notions of "gay marriage". Efforts to push Homosexuals into the military openly or otherwise is totally politically motivated.
In what possible way will having homos in the military make the military better?
In what possible way will homos make the job easier?
How will we handle issues like "partners"....Married heteros get to deploy and are housed w/ their partners....how will we handle this issue w/ homos? What about the HIV tests....How will it be when the units openly homosexual troop is standing in line for the HIV test?.....How will this not single that person out? Why would this person then not charge the military with further discrimination???
Homosexuals have shown themselves to be far more likely to have multiple partners than Heterosexuals and far more likely to have unprotected sex than heteros...In what possibly way is that type of loose and hopelessly indecent sexual activity consistent with Honor? How is that possibly consistent with higher levels of character and selflessness? Do people SERIOUSLY want the military to bend over for the ***** sexual proclivities of a small loudmouthed group of individuals who expect the military to set aside everything they've built in the last 240 some odd years...in order to admit a few very strange people and their "sexual lifestyle"...This is not what the military is about. The argument over nature or nurture is far from over as well. Even if Homosexuality was pure "nature"....so might be stupidity....or there could be a bad "criminal" gene....We would not let those people in either, so that argument is hollow as well. The military has standards. Standards that are MUCH higher than in civil society. If your over weight, over age and can't see....you don't get a slot at flight school....period. The military is NOT there to obit around you and all your whims and desires. We don't let you in if you don't meet the standard. How about security clearances.....How about the endless embarrassment this will cause....the horridly foolish scenes of homosexual service members engaging in some nasty act of "public affection" (seeming the whole point of much in the homosexual agenda.....shocking the public for the sheer fun of it...now...how can such a stupid self centered and patently gross activity fit in the military?)
Really people...is any of this the military's job??? Is this really our mission?
NO. Of course not....Homosexuals should NOT be allowed in the military. Ask, and keep out.
I'm just glad those opinions are in the minority.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:00 AM
 
11,944 posts, read 14,781,454 times
Reputation: 2772
Quote:
Originally Posted by AnUnidentifiedMale View Post
You don't even have to "divulge your sexuality" in order to be discharged. If you enter a same-sex civil union or marriage, it's grounds for discharge. If you're seen at a gay event or at a gay bar, it's grounds for discharge.

Heterosexuals "divulge their sexuality" whenever they talk about their boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, or wives. I think homosexuals should have the same right.
Add this to your perspective-- when paper pushers are obliged to randomly assign housing to petty officers in pairs for a 2 br apartment for maximum efficiency sake, how much pain are you asking them to undertake when they have to make sure a gay isn't being forced to share an apartment with a mormon?
Here's another scenario-- my job is to do a quarterly performance report in the form of 'marks'. If you get bad marks that affect your ability to be promoted, will you then use the argument that I must be homophobic because you're gay? These kinds of criteria throwing a wrench in the works is a real PITA.
How many allowances and exceptions will the military system have to jump around to function? Put too many upon them, it ceases to function efficiently and everyone suffers.

The logistics/ protocol aren't in place to substitute the automatic removal of DADT policy. I agree there's unfairness happening to gays, but rules are there to protect both parties if you'll allow yourself to see it from that perspective. A fence cuts both ways in it's definition.

I think you'd be wise to listen to Colin Powell's speech in that other thread. He isn't saying never, he's saying it's not as simple as erasing one piece of paper to unravel the numerous complexities involved. The very same thing happened when females were open to coming into service, and it was incredibly awkward for commands to shift gears so harshly. Perhaps you could read some of sailordaves posts and see the mistakes of the past, or take my word for it that it is possible for things to go smoothly if only policy were hammered out properly. That is, more than a company memo handing down a mandate, guidance to chains of command needs to take place.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:01 AM
 
Location: somewhere in the woods
16,880 posts, read 15,194,933 times
Reputation: 5240
disagree, I dont care if gays serve in the military, but I dont want to know their sexual preference either, whether it is straight, bi or gay.

this is coming from a vet.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:02 AM
 
Location: Somewhere on Earth
1,052 posts, read 1,647,732 times
Reputation: 712
Quote:
Originally Posted by Happy Cells View Post
Homosexuals have shown themselves to be far more likely to have multiple partners than Heterosexuals and far more likely to have unprotected sex than heteros...
You know, heterosexuals are more likely to be pedos, molestors, rapists, and all that jazz

By the way, use paragraph indentations and spacings the next time you feel the need to rant as that post was a reflection of how poorly educated you are in the written language. Also, abusing the ellipsis is way more offensive to some than gays in the military
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:18 AM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,665,061 times
Reputation: 7943
Quote:
Originally Posted by Le Lune View Post
You know, heterosexuals are more likely to be pedos, molestors, rapists, and all that jazz
Not only that, homosexual women actually have fewer sex partners than heterosexual men or heterosexual women.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:20 AM
 
768 posts, read 942,486 times
Reputation: 608
With the increase in internet-capable younger generations, the military recruitment numbers are sure to go down. For years the types of people who joined the military didn't have access to good information that informed them as to what the United States did abroad, and why. Now they do.

One hopes that not too many people are willing to be killers-for-hire for what amounts to a corporate war(s) revolving around Israel.

Soon they'll be recruiting at Gay Pride Parades in the desperate hope that one or two are dumb enough to die for about 30 grand a year.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 01:59 AM
 
Location: Mississippi
3,047 posts, read 2,825,654 times
Reputation: 699
Military men are silent victims of sexual assault | HamptonRoads.com | PilotOnline.com


There is a widespread presumption that most victims of sexual assault in the military services are women. That presumption, however, is false.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 02-03-2010, 02:16 AM
 
Location: Mississippi
3,047 posts, read 2,825,654 times
Reputation: 699
Any male soldiers if you have been sexually assaulted by a homosexual in the military please contact the below listed numbers.

To report a sexual assault in a military service, contact a sexual assault response coordinator or victim advocate. Local contact information is provided by each military service. There also is a central hot line:
  • Stateside: 800-342-9647
  • Overseas: 00-800-3429-6477
  • Overseas collect: 484-530-5908
Reports can be confidential; victims are encouraged but not required to notify their command or law enforcement
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Politics and Other Controversies
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top