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That's crude and unnecessary, I expect better than that, especially from you.
I lived that description that was my experience with abortion. At the time i was very pro abortion. her note to me said she did not wish me because she did not want to ruin my career or hers. She did not tell me while she was alive because it was he choice. At the time i would have supported her through the process and would have been there. I understand more than anyone abortion kills more than a fetus. It destroys people. So I would appreciate it if you not call my life experiences crude as i lived them.
Someday you might change your view
I lived that description that was my experience with abortion. At the time i was very pro abortion. her note to me said she did not wish me because she did not want to ruin my career or hers. She did not tell me while she was alive because it was he choice. At the time i would have supported her through the process and would have been there. I understand more than anyone abortion kills more than a fetus. It destroys people. So I would appreciate it if you not call my life experiences crude as i lived them.
Someday you might change your view
I didn't call your life experiences crude, I called your application of them crude. You wish to tell about your life experience as a reason for your opinions, that's fine. Shaping the post so that you essentially accuse me of enabling the death of my better half is disrespectful, crude, completely unnecessary and quite shocking, especially coming from you, considering one of your other threads under this very forum.
You have no reason to think you have any inside into my relationship or the dynamics therein. If you think personal experience can simply be transferred unedited from one to another, you are sorely mistaken.
I am disturbed by the lack of civility, seriousness and empathy you showed with that post considering you're asking for that very thing in another topic.
Personally I think you should be ashamed of yourself, and I think you owe me an apology. That said, I doubt I'll get one.
Last edited by TheViking85; 03-28-2010 at 09:18 AM..
I am leaving this thread now, I don't hate anybody. I feel sorry for them.
I feel sorry for all the young girls that are going to be influenced by the pro execution (thank you wjtwet) mentality that will make them believe it is ok to sleep around because you can always just kill it and throw away the bag like garbage.
Yes it is our business because you are destroying our young people by making them believe it is okay and they will be hurt down the road.
If you don't get that, I really do feel sorry for you but mostly, I feel sorry for them.
And guess what?
I have a RIGHT to SPEAK!
I didn't call your life experiences crude, I called your application of them crude. You wish to tell about your life experience as a reason for your opinions, that's fine. Shaping the post so that you essentially accuse me of enabling the death of my better half is disrespectful, crude, completely unnecessary and quite shocking, coming from you, considering one of your other threads under this very forum.
You have no reason to think you have any inside into my relationship or the dynamics therein. If you think personal experience can simply be transferred unedited from one to another, you are sorely mistaken.
I am disturbed by the lack of civility, seriousness and empathy you showed with that post considering you're asking for that very thing in another topic.
Personally I think you should be ashamed of yourself, and I think you owe me an apology. That said, I doubt I'll get one.
Actually it was your lack of civility. I asked you a question based on my life. I do not pretend to know what your relationship was. Your brought your fiancé into the chat. So i pointed my experience with my fiancé and why i think the the man involved should be told.
You also have shown a complete lack of empathy and understanding that everyone does not have the same experience as you.
You brought your fiancé into the discussion i brought mine. I hope you never have to experience what i did
Actually it was your lack of civility. I asked you a question based on my life. I do not pretend to know what your relationship was. Your brought your fiancé into the chat. So i pointed my experience with my fiancé and why i think the the man involved should be told.
You also have shown a complete lack of empathy and understanding that everyone does not have the same experience as you.
You brought your fiancé into the discussion i brought mine. I hope you never have to experience what i did
Let me bring up the succession of the posts here:
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Originally Posted by aveojohn
Whats really sad is, with all the birth control available, abortion shouldn't have to be an option.
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Originally Posted by TheViking85
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Originally Posted by aveojohn
Whats really sad is, with all the birth control available, abortion shouldn't have to be an option.
That's true, but no birth control is 100%
In my relationship we use p-pills as birth control, I think that's sufficient enough of an attempt to avoid pregnancy, should it happened either way, I doubt anything but aborting it would be a sound option at the moment, however it would be entirely up to my fiancé, not up to me.
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Originally Posted by wjtwet
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Originally Posted by TheViking85
That's true, but no birth control is 100%
In my relationship we use p-pills as birth control, I think that's sufficient enough of an attempt to avoid pregnancy, should it happened either way, I doubt anything but aborting it would be a sound option at the moment, however it would be entirely up to my fiancé, not up to me.
How about when it happens and your fiance goes gets an abortion and three days later you find out in her suicide note.
now you do not have your child or yoru fiance
As this shows, I used my relationship as an example when replying to another poster. Your question was "How about WHEN it happens", no hypothetical, no room for the fact that it does not always go down that way, simply a crude, matter of fact. You did not anywhere specify this was something that happened to you. That post was a disgrace.
If you think I've argued anything but the point with you, please show me where and I'll be more than happy to clarify and apologize if needed.
I suggest you start living up to your own standard, until then I see no point in continuing this farce any further.
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