a little over a week and now I've tested positive for pregnancy? (faint, years) - - City-Data Forum

kitgirl11 · 07-24-2012, 09:23 AM

I feel a little different and idk my period is a bit irregular. I took a test and I'm positive well I looked it up and says faint positives are positives too. It sucks because I know he didn't want kids. He's actually facing legal troubles and the reason why we got married prematurely anyhow. Idk how to tell him really. I've felt like I was pregnant before missing like 2 periods don't think I'd have yested positive though. So I guess I'm pregnant. I wanted kids not this young but I guess that's life. Oh well, idk guess tonight il tell him face to face.

Knox Harrington · 07-28-2012, 11:24 PM

As Judge Judy says to girls like you, "you picked him."

I'm not really sure what your question is, but if you are pregnant, please try not to be irresponsible.

Don't drink and don't smoke.

When he or she gets older, don't leave him or her in hot cars.

Let him or her know he or she is loved. And actually love and care for him or her.

This $hit isn't rocket science, but unfortunately a lot of new parents don't know how to act.

kitgirl11 · 07-29-2012, 08:37 PM

im pregnant. I just can't believe it...

supportyourschools · 07-29-2012, 09:00 PM

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im pregnant. I just can't believe it...

I don't understand why people say this. If you're having sex, there is always a possibility that you'll become pregnant.

lastra · 07-30-2012, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Knox Harrington

As Judge Judy says to girls like you, "you picked him."

I'm not really sure what your question is, but if you are pregnant, please try not to be irresponsible.

Don't drink and don't smoke.

When he or she gets older, don't leave him or her in hot cars.

Let him or her know he or she is loved. And actually love and care for him or her.

This $hit isn't rocket science, but unfortunately a lot of new parents don't know how to act.

I couldn't agree more with this post. Good Luck throughout your pregnancy.

MsAnnThrope · 07-30-2012, 10:02 PM

Yeah I don't know why people have sex without bc then come up all surprised when they're pregnant? I was so freakn paranoid about it I was on the pill since 16 even when I wasn't having sex.

Anyway a lot of babies are conceived this way and do just fine. My ex mil always said "they bring the love with them" and she's right.

no kudzu · 07-31-2012, 01:23 PM

OK I will be the first to say it. You have choices you know. Be grateful you live in a time and place which allows you the choices. If you don't want to bring a child into this world you could terminate or place the child for adoption. Both are better ideas than reluctantly bringing a child into a loveless marriage or where the father is in jail.

no kudzu · 07-31-2012, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope

Anyway a lot of babies are conceived this way and do just fine. My ex mil always said "they bring the love with them" and she's right.

Sounds good but our abuse rate in this country says otherwise.

Madeline2121 · 07-31-2012, 01:32 PM

I would like to add that I got pregnant while on the pill. I took it the same time every day, and I was not on antibiotics or any other medication. However, I have been married for three years, and we wanted a child anyway.

Bakeneko · 07-31-2012, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by no kudzu

OK I will be the first to say it. You have choices you know. Be grateful you live in a time and place which allows you the choices. If you don't want to bring a child into this world you could terminate or place the child for adoption. Both are better ideas than reluctantly bringing a child into a loveless marriage or where the father is in jail.

Indeed. It sounds like the poster got married to not have to testify against her husband or something? I'm not convinced that this poster is "for real" - her posts seem kinda all over the place.....