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Then find a woman who doesn't turn down sex. You must be running in the wrong circles. I don't know any woman who turns down sex. Most women I know pester their men for sex and the men can't keep up.
in my life the only such women i've ever known were the ones who had to be that way in order to get laid - in other words, the least attractive of the bunch.
it has been my experience that any woman that is a 7 or above in attractiveness can and will be fairly picky. not saying that such women don't enjoy sex, it's just that because of their greater "market value" so to speak they're able to be more selective about who they hook up with.
Wow, this is completely unrealistic. A woman might be just as horny as the guy she is standing next to in the bar or party, but she is not going to invite him home.
why not? It happens all the time in other countries.....
But the whole issue with mens frustration(and thus the sex drive being a curse) is women turning men down for sex.
I have NO PROBLEM that random women in the street turn down my offers; it's no big deal and I expect it.
The problem, however, is that the American government restricts women from selling sex outright (except porn), which is unfortunate because women with the temperament to be "working girls" could make a good living from providing relief to the men who don't have the financial means or mental temperament to acquire a wife/GF.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
It's not a curse. I know when mine goes up for certain reasons and certain women that turn me on. The testosterone levels rise and my whiskers go even faster!
I agree with "lifeexplorer." From what I've read and understand, scientifically it takes women longer to be mentally and hence sexually stimulated. That is why FOREPLAY is imperative for a women. Foreplay doesn't have to always include physical activities. It includes romantic dinners, genuine compliments given in person, and any other sort of romantic gesture. Remember, females are extremely emotional beings!
I don't buy into that anymore..... If you're a highly desirable male you can bypass all that and just get down to business like the rock stars do.
And secondly, what about prostitutes? They don't require complements, dinners, and massive amounts of foreplay (though you can offer this if you want) but they still provide sex, and in many cases they offer BETTER sex then a non prostitutes because they know what they are doing and they know it's not all about them.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
I know what you mean. Your not crazy. I wish their was an on and off switch.
I hate the fact that I don't choose which women I'm physically attracted to. Like this ex co worker who pretty much threw me under the bridge I would still "hook up" with her because I'm programmed that way.
If you take care of your teeth, eat healthy, go to the dermatologist and go to the gym women will find you attractive. I tell everyguy this. It's hardwork but taking care of your physical appearance requires discipline. You have to make yourself look as best as possible and find your personal style. It's not easy. Especially the gym part and its expensive but it does work.
Women will smile at you alot more, start conversations with you, hell some will even make up excuses just to touch you or get your attention.
Then you have to find out a way to make every women excited about you. It took me a while but I found that most women like my sense of humor. So I make them laugh alot and they enjoy my ambitious attitude.
But yeah it sucks. It's nature's way of making sure we reproduce. You know what would really suck?? If we couldn't masturbate. and the only way to get "it out" would be to have sex. Laws and moral principles would be redone. The world as we know it would change.
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and the only way to get "it out" would be to have sex. Laws and moral principles would be redone. The world as we know it would change.