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as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
I admit, I haven't spent any money on porn, ever. Nor would I have sex with a guy I didn't plan on having a relationship with. I know women that would, just not me.
Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us.
Some women are, not most, in my experience. If sex is important to a man in a relationship, it is his responsibility not only to communicate this to potential partners, but also to find a woman with whom he is sexually compatible.
I don't know any women that are sexually apathetic. Actually - more of my girlfriends have had issues with having a higher sex drive than the person they are seeing than the reverse.
Here's the thing with me. I enjoy sex. Tremendously. But I was always very picky about who I had sex with. Why? Because it can be a very intimate experience. It changes a relationship. It leaves you vulnerable. It requires someone seeing much if not all of my body naked. So - when I'm in a relationship with someone - it's all systems go. But until I trust that person to a certain extent - I'm not going to put myself in a position to get hurt emotionally or physically. Some posters on here consider this "controlling" sex. I just see it as being realistic and smart about it.
When women arent attracted to you yes having a high sex drive is a nuisance
this.
it can be a boon if you're the kind of guy that can pull, otherwise if you're some chump that gets rejected most of the time then yes it can definitely be a curse. unfortunately while we do have some control over things, there are many things that we simply cannot control about ourselves (eg, our race, ethnicity, body type, height, skin color etc) which can either be an aid or a hindrance to getting the type of women you want...
Okay first off, if a woman is married and her husband can't or doesn't want to have sex, how is it that she will get sex without any effort at all?
If her husband doesn’t want sex, he just doesn’t want it regardless of the effort she might consider doing. Like in the other thread about the massage with no sex, if a woman doesn’t want sex, then, SHE DOESN’T WANT SEX, period. And women say their decision should be respected and the man should understand she doesn’t want sex, right? Well, apply the same the other way around.
Let’s say a horny woman walks to a party and just wants a fling. Believe me, she can walk to almost any guy in there and ask for it, she’ll get it. Have a horny guy try to do the same and just walk up to women and try to have sex and tell me which of them (the guy or the girl) will have a higher possibility of getting sex in a snap. See what I mean? A guy normally has to work it, a woman doesn’t.
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Secondly, if you feel that it's a tedious job to date a girl, then you must be doing it wrong
Read again, I was talking about the OP. It’s not tedious for me or I wouldn’t do the things I do like the one on my profile pic. I enjoy doing all that for a girl as much as having a girl prepare all that for me.
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Dating is about having fun, if you aren't having fun what the heck are you going through all that effort for?
You must have missed my posts about romantic ideas a month or two ago and the things I do for a woman which I have also enjoyed from women.
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And lastly, women aren't going to get easy sex unless they maintain their appearance
If someone thinks a girl is ugly, another guy will find her pretty. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
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And I'm not sure what planet you are dating on but even way back when...I planned dates, I paid for dates and all that other "courting" stuff. Most of my friends did too. If I thought a guy was a good catch I would even ask him out. Have you ever stopped to think that maybe your issues with dating stem from issues within yourself, and not with women in general?
Sure, a woman may plan a date once she is married or have been with a guy for years. There may be some women who are the exceptions out there that may even do those things on the very 2nd date or, let alone, the very first one. Like I have said before, I have no issues dating. Even when I am in the USA I date American girls regardless of certain differences from what I am used to dating and it’s all good. I just follow culture/tradition when in the USA. An opinion doesn’t have to come from personal experiences necessarily. Just like when women participate in the “fat woman” thread. Does it mean they are all fat? Nope, they just have their opinion on the subject, that’s all. I have my opinion on this like you have yours and that’s all it is, an opinion.
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Originally Posted by bitterclinger
ummmmmm, I am a wife who does want sex and I do allow my husband to maturbate. (especially since I do too....)
Men should never underestimate the importance of masturbation. There is a saying that I think is pretty accurate: "Masturbate before making any big decision." Your head is more clear and you're able to think more logically.
my husband says that the saying in the Army was/is "It's my dick and I can wash it as long as I want to........"
Let’s say a horny woman walks to a party and just wants a fling. Believe me, she can walk to almost any guy in there and ask for it, she’ll get it. Have a horny guy try to do the same and just walk up to women and try to have sex and tell me which of them (the guy or the girl) will have a higher possibility of getting sex in a snap. See what I mean? A guy normally has to work it, a woman doesn’t.
Why do your posts about this always sound so negative towards women? Honestly - if anything - you are making it seem like all men are horny guys that will do just about anyone and women have some taste and self - respect. Except that you try to color it in a bad way for the women - like they are evil for not wanting to have random sex with strangers as often as men.
According to my old boss it is. He informed me men think about sex every 10 seconds. Is that why men like to have desk jobs - just asking
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