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as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
The male sex drive is a wonderful thing. The "curse" is lack of self control or just plain not caring how your actions affect other people. That goes for women as well.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
Women want sex just as much as men; it is just the word sex literally means two different things to men and women. To men, it means the physical act of the sex - intercourse to be exact; to women it is the experience, from flirting, falling in love, having sex, ... the whole nine yard.
Do they want the raw sex or intercourse? Sure they do but the other stuff are just as important and without the other stuff, it's hard for me to get into the act.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing.
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Men have no say or control in this matter.
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Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us.
REALLY wrong. I am a woman. I know hundreds of women. Only a tiny minority of them are what I would call sexually apathetic. Including my 77 year old mother.
Do you even know any women, or is this just "data" based on stuff you see on TV or the Internet?
You seem like the kind of young guy who could desperately use a boatload of advice about women, dating, relationships and love. There are not enough C-D posters in the world for what you need. But I will start with one tidbit, for free:
Make friends with a woman. Just friends. Any woman.
Both male and female sex drive is wonderful and without it the world would certainly would be a much duller greyer place.
What I do not like however is people ( more often than not men) using their sex drive to excuse all kinds of bad behaviour. Lust and sexual desire are great, but they do not mean we have somehow lost our moral compass and are unable to resist temptation or to control ourselves.
Bad behaviour is not caused by our sex drive but by our CHOICE and willingness to hurt , exploit and use others and to allow ourselves to make poor decisions.
ALL of us have sexual urges, not all of us behave like baboons in heat.... What separates us from the rest of the animal kingdom is our ability to empathise with the feelings of others and to decide between right and wrong.
Penises do not make bad decisions. Brains do. I find it intellectually disingenuous for people to claim they "could not help" themselves, lost control and were simply helpless and victim of their own desires. That to me is cowardly, dishonest and a lot phooey.
Long live the human sex drive. It is what we do with it which counts though.
I think your main problem is that you mentioned women don't find you attractive -- not that women in general have all this control over you or have some type of conniving plan to deprive you. It's not an individual woman's job to provide you with sex.
Why don't women find you attractive? Do you think its purely based upon your looks or maybe does it have something to do with the lousy attitude you have? It seems to be a pattern whereby men who don't lift a finger to take care of themselves or make an effort to dress well get all upset when women don't want to talk to them.
at certain times in your life, yeah, it's a curse. like when you're 11 and you hit puberty, it can be a long wait until women become interested in sex.
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