This is a challenge for me and something I continue to work on. It seems my mind's tendency is to think about what I don't have more than what I do. For instance, I live in a resort town 50 feet from the beach, but the gratitude kind of "wore off" and now instead of pinching myself for how lucky I got (my apartment is unbelievably cheap!) I get mad at how the tourists drive and where they park and how inconvenienced I am (I was one of them 15 years ago
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I can "catch it" and change my thinking much faster now, but it seems to be an automatic "go to".
I am grateful to live in a place I love
I am grateful that tourists love it as much as I do, so much so they pay thousands of dollars a week to stay here and keeps the economy strong.
I am grateful me and my friends did not lose homes during Sandy, and that the city is as good as ever.
I am grateful for a job I like with people I like, and that I get to hug people and make people happy and get paid for it (nursing home).
I am grateful to have my honey, who cherishes me and treats me like gold, who I met 3 years ago after being single for most of the preceding 10 years, and thinking "he" might not ever come along.
I am grateful for having MADE IT to age 51! I did many stupid things in my young years that could have ended up very differently
I am grateful for my family