a strange dream (woman, thoughts, relationship, people)

[mimsja]

i have a little problem. its something ive never told anyone becase its alittle embarrasing. i recently had an erotic dream
i was in a large bed watching this couple have sex. the dream excited me so much that i cant stop thinking about doing this in real life.
im not posting this to be perverted. i really need some advice on weather these thoughts are normal.

[Billy_J]

So far as sex and what is "normal", I have found it quite "common" for people to have various fantasies. And that can be anything from dressing up in some sort of clothes or uniform to watching others or being watched by someone.

But people tend to not discuss these things. So no telling what percentage of people like this or like that.

Anyway some people are "exhibitionists" and like to be looked at or watched. Others are "voyeurs" and like to watch others.

It is somewhat common to see personals posts for this on websites like craigslist.org. Look in the Personals, Casual Encounters area. Then they have every combination of people you can imagine. Like "mw4m". That means a man and a woman who are looking for a 3rd person - man.

They also have "regular" personals in that section like m4w or w4m.

I suppose you could go through the various different categories there and count the number of posts, then see how many posts each has in a month or year (if it goes back that far). That might be interesting to see the numbers.

One thing I have done in the past, and what is QUITE interesting reading, is to look at personals, "Men Seeking Women" and "Women Seeking Men". Those are for people looking for relationships. And a VERY big difference between the two!