I'm so freaking fed up... I'm trying to keep in mind that my roommate might have a serious problem, and I'm trying not to judge so harshly, but day in and day out of the same thing is really starting to wear on me.
I live with 3 roommates, the most recent roommate got here about a month and a half ago. She is from Great Britain, I think here on a tourist visa, and is trying to... actually, I don't know what she's trying to do. Anyway, she rarely ever leaves the house. I'm not home all the time, but between my other roomates and I, we've figured out that unless she has to go to work, she does not leave the house. She works 2 days a week, any other time she is tethered to the couch or her bed, or the bathroom.
On the days that any of us have off, here's what she does (in this order):
- Wake up at 1-2pm. We'll make small talk with her and she'll talk about what shes up to that day - hanging out with a friend or going to run errands, she'll say.
- Go into the bathroom and spend 1-2 hours in there, leaving only when someone knocks on the door to use the restroom. (She'll leave, but only to stand outside and wait until that person is done, then she goes right back in.)
- Try on 5-6 different outfits verrrrrry slowly in front of the mirror. She stands there and smooths every crease, looks at herself from 20 different angles for about 15 minutes, then repeats with the next outfit.
- Puts on a full face of makeup
- Gets into the shower (this is AFTER she has already done herself up completely)
Spends another hour or so in the bathroom
- Does the whole "getting ready" routine all over again
- Spends 30 minutes searching underneath couches, looking around on the floor as if she's lost something.
- Goes back into the bathroom for another hour or so.
And in the end, she doesn't even step outside of the house!
She'll usually end up on the couch or in her room on her laptop until the wee hours of the next morning. And when she actually DOES manage to leave the house after this whole charade, she's back in 15 minutes. I'm not even joking here.
There's also the issue of hygiene. She does not do laundry and there's a smell that comes from herself and her room. Not overpowering, but not good. There's definitely a "smell" she's brought into the house.
I will admit that her behavior really friggin irritates me. Our roommate schedules before left each of us with enough alone time at the house, but now we are always fighting for the bathroom and she's always THERE. What the heck?! How do I talk to her about this stuff?