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Why do I believe that when a man that stares at me or comes in contact with me, I think they like me or want me or find me really beautiful. It can be a stanger or a customer service guy that I come into contact with. I wonder why in my mind I feel this way. What is this, am I just narcissistic/have a huge ego or something? I'm a really shy girl, and I actually don't believe anyone will ever go out with me because I lack self confidence...could that be the reason? It just bugs me because I do hear my thoughts and I think they're so wack...like seriously, why would I think a random stranger likes me? I can't help but feel this way. What's wrong with me?
Why do I believe that when a man that stares at me or comes in contact with me, I think they like me or want me or find me really beautiful. It can be a stanger or a customer service guy that I come into contact with. I wonder why in my mind I feel this way. What is this, am I just narcissistic/have a huge ego or something? I'm a really shy girl, and I actually don't believe anyone will ever go out with me because I lack self confidence...could that be the reason? It just bugs me because I do hear my thoughts and I think they're so wack...like seriously, why would I think a random stranger likes me? I can't help but feel this way. What's wrong with me?
There's nothing wrong with you, in fact it's very healthy. Imagine the opposite, that you felt complitely ignored by men, that would be worse, right?
Maybe you feel (consciously or unconsciously) a turn on when a total stranger stares at you, and you give body language signs that welcome them to keep staring.
Men like to look at welcoming women, it's just natural. It's not necessarily about sex, it can be an appreciative look, like "she's got dreamy eyes", or "how soft her skin looks", or " I wonder how she likes ( insert word/action/attribute)"
There's nothing wrong with you, in fact it's very healthy. Imagine the opposite, that you felt complitely ignored by men, that would be worse, right?
Maybe you feel (consciously or unconsciously) a turn on when a total stranger stares at you, and you give body language signs that welcome them to keep staring.
Men like to look at welcoming women, it's just natural. It's not necessarily about sex, it can be an appreciative look, like "she's got dreamy eyes", or "how soft her skin looks", or " I wonder how she likes ( insert word/action/attribute)"
Really I don't think it's healthy at all. By the way even if they stare at me I tend to look away like I don't even notice them.
It just bugs me because I do hear my thoughts and I think they're so wack...like seriously, why would I think a random stranger likes me? I can't help but feel this way. What's wrong with me?
I think that this condition doesn't hurt anything and will probably pass.
I think that this condition doesn't hurt anything and will probably pass.
So, what are you do'in Friday night?
Pass? I hope it does I've been feeling this way for such a long time.
Last edited by Caliwood; 04-22-2013 at 12:52 PM..
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