Adult Son is Stealing Women's Underwear (therapy, mom, girlfriend, complex)
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I'm sorry about the length, but this is a serious problem and I need all the help I can get, that's why it's so detailed. I don't even know what to think. Thanks....
A few months ago, I found stolen panties in my 24 year old son's apartment. There were even pantyliners and maxi pads (new) there (why!?).He told me he stole them from the apartment's laundry room. I bagged them up,and threw them all out. Must have been around 90 to 100 pairs.
Not much else was said. I asked my sister, and she told me about "Panty Raids" and that he probably masturbated in them. He also hasn't had a girlfriend since High School, and that only lasted 1-2 months.
However, since then he's been living at home and I have caught him more than a dozen times, red handed, rifling through my underwear draw. He denied it every time, even though HE KNOWS I SAW HIM. I’ve also been noticing some of my kotex pads missing, too (again, why?!)
He takes from his younger sister's, 22 years old, too. We've both been noticing missing panties for well over 6 or 7 years now but never thought too much about it until now. My daughter over the last 2 years now takes ALL of her underwear back to graduate school with her, and now I see why.
I guess the most relieving bit is that it always seems to be clean panties he takes. Thank god for that, I guess.
I think he's been doing this since he was a young teen! I knew I was always missing underwear.
I don't care that he has a panty fetish. What I do care is that he stole hundreds of pairs from an apartment laundry facility, and is going through mine and his sisters' underwear.
How would you have reacted initially? How would you react if you saw your teen or adult son going through YOUR underwear? What do I do now?! How can I get him to leave both mine and my daughter’s underwear alone!? Should I be concerned?
This makes no sense. Why would a guy need 90-100 pairs of underwear in order to masturbate? And if he didn't intend to re-use them, why didn't he just throw them out? Why would he keep them? Or why wouldn't he wash them? And why does mom assume he was telling the truth about stealing them - maybe he purchased them.
And if mom doesn't want her undies in son's possession, why doesn't she just buy him some undies of his own? Tell him to wash 'em when he has done his business.
A few months ago, I found stolen panties in my 24 year old son's apartment.
That's called snooping.
It's odd that first time posters never report finding books or a half-written thesis or a complex mathematical equation on a kitchen blackboard. It's always panties.
Last edited by DewDropInn; 12-15-2013 at 07:17 PM..
I learned in my criminal justice that it's a bad sign if a man steals a woman's underwear and it has nothing to do with potential cross-dressing. Your son needs help. :-O
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