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It is common for one person be ready to move on while the other one isn't in the same place. Instead of turning to a public forum for a private matter, I would suggest marriage counseling to be sure you are making the right decision and also help your spouse to be able to pick up the pieces and move on if that is the only solution.
Your statement is that you don't want a fight but there was no mention of the emotional pain you want to inflict on your spouse. It seems you have made up your mind and have little regard for him. Who do you think is the problem...don't answer, just think seriously. Putting the other person first is the key to a great marriage.
Spouses are drifting apart. How can one leave without hurting the other too much?
Short answer: You can't.
I'd consider reading this book before filing for divorce. You may still decide to do that, but it's such a practical book, it's worth reading no matter what you decide:
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