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The man would watch porn because he does not know how to make LOVE...His ideas are not based in tenderness and affection...modern men...not all but some equate sex to aggression or violence....to abuse...If a man wants to masturbate while watching vile porn - rather than make love to his own partner....well....If I were the woman....I would dump the monkey. The woman should find an intelligent man of substance...capable of love.
If you are healthy and young getting it up should never be a problem...There are lots of pornish things you can do with your wife or lover...MAKE your own live porn...right there on the spot. Porn is for lonely old single men and young teenagers....The feel... the taste the smell.... the sound of a real live woman can never be matched by the digital artificial garbage that is porn... I have been around a long time and am old...I fathered four children and had many lovers in my youth...and it was exotic woman are the most precious thing in the world...YOU will figure that out once you age and they no longer want you.....then porn maybe.
From what some men have told me. Sometimes they just want the release and not all the "obligation" that comes with sex. Yeah, sex may feel better, but it's not always about how it feels, but just getting to that release.
Obviously, it can also be for the other hundreds of reasons people have listed here.
If you are healthy and young getting it up should never be a problem...There are lots of pornish things you can do with your wife or lover...MAKE your own live porn...right there on the spot. Porn is for lonely old single men and young teenagers....The feel... the taste the smell.... the sound of a real live woman can never be matched by the digital artificial garbage that is porn... I have been around a long time and am old...I fathered four children and had many lovers in my youth...and it was exotic woman are the most precious thing in the world...YOU will figure that out once you age and they no longer want you.....then porn maybe.
The problem is young teenage boys starting their porn habit so young that before they ever are with a woman they already have ED, social problems, & probably an unhealthy mental/emotional views towards sex. Their sexuality & their view of women's sexuality has been shaped in terms of porn.
Most of the reasons given show a selfish attitude towards sex, which porn seems to create and/or perpetuate. He's bored with his partner, he's tired but still wants to get off, etc. The crux of this is a selfish attitude then. He watches porn instead of being intimate with his partner because sex is viewed & experienced as something satiate his needs. Women are classed with porn - a means to his pleasurable end.
And while women certainly view porn, we are not hearing about the same negative effects on their relationships, yet.
Wish I could rep you a million times! There is a reason during second wave feminism women were very anti-porn. And that was back just when men really had magazines and some tapes to watch! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminis...raphy_feminism
I love how so many men feel they are "entitled" to experience sexual gratification AT ALL COSTS regardless of how their partner feels. Good lord are most men so pathetic and weak-willed they can't even stop to think how their partner feels? I don't care what ANYONE says, porn is a disgusting perverse "past-time" that men with no self-control or morals/decency engage in, which is why I am so happy my daughters bf doesn't watch it and only cares FOR HER! I remember one time I saw a guy only for a few weeks and hopped on his computer only to find he had bookmarked about half a dozen porn sites, I broke up with him immediately I am not dealing with that crap!
Either that, or it's a subtle acknowledgement by my tech devices that while I wouldn't choose pornography over actual sex, there may, in fact, be times where I'd take a pork tenderloin sandwich over sex. Depending on the sex. Depending on the loin, as well, come to that.
Yeah, I personally believe internet porn is one of the worst things that have really messed a lot of men up. They get some weird ideas/views from it and think women can do that/look like that. Of course guys won't admit it. True porn has been around forever, but there is a HUGE difference between a guy looking at some porno mags/pictures in the past and today where you can find numerous free videos of every kind of genre and sub-genre of porn there is. There are lots of guys into cartoon porn for crying out loud
My daughter has told me her bf hates porn and never watches it and I contribute a lot of that to him being a good respectable man that has healthy ideas of sex and treats her right. I would never date a man that watches porn, I don't care if he says he only watches it a little, it's me or the porn.
Sure he does. Yes, no respectable people watch porn(sarcasm).
As long as the woman is sexually satisfied I don't see the problem. Its only a problem if the guy is using the porn instead of satisfying her. Some guys like myself do both.
+1 Me and my lady watch it together. Some of these women need to get over the insecurities about porn.
Your daughter's boyfriend ought to put up a hidden camera facing the computer for when she is gone. I'll take money at 110-1 odds, the guy watches porn. All men like to look at women, those who say otherwise, either have no testosterone left in their body, or they are really good liars.
It still cracks me how everyone on this forum always takes the almighty high road....."not me"
There is so much porn out there today, BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE WATCHING IT!
Personally all a little porn ever did for me, was make me want to attack my girlfriend. Most didn't care as long as I kept coming for them.
What ruins a good man for a good woman along the sex issue..... is not looking at stuff. It's doing it in real life. That's when the line is crossed.
I had an ole friend who was married to a pretty woman and he loved her. He went away to Germany once for his business and visited the FKK men's clubs while over there. He came home a changed man. He bragged to me about how he could have sex with cover model grade women and how they did anything and everything and many were VERY sexual. It ruined his sex life with his wife and they later divorced. He became so addicted to these women, he travels there 4-6 times a year. I looked it up once and as a man, I'll admit, the women in those clubs are incredibly beautiful and the fact that they'll do anything for you is appealing. But even I have a moral compass and will never pay for sex. But look at porn and get revved up for my girl? I'll do that and it works!
Exactly! Porn is not a multi billion industry because of a few guys watching porn in there basement. People would be surprised at the people in their lives who actually watch porn.
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