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Old 02-28-2014, 11:06 PM
 
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Porn is cheating and people like you are part of the problem.
Now the truth of the post is coming out.

 
Old 02-28-2014, 11:20 PM
 
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All so true! It's ridiculous why a woman can't be enough to "satisfy" a man and he has to get all hot and bothered over watching random men and women going at it. How sad.
You can't say a women can satisfy a man just because they're some sort of receptacle for his equipment. Just cuz she's a warm body doesn't mean she's worth having sex with. Get a grip.
 
Old 02-28-2014, 11:58 PM
 
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Yeah...okay. Perhaps my daughters idea of commitment comes from wanting to feel love and protected? And no, her bf does not have a drive to sleep with other women. Men that are good and truly value a woman and a good committed relationship don't.
Yes he does. He may not act on that drive; however, I can assure you that it's there. He would't be a normal guy if he didn't think about sex with other women. Being that you don't even know how to use a comma, I doubt you have the intellect or education to even fathom the notion that your make believe world is a merely a lack of understanding reality.
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Old 03-01-2014, 12:49 AM
 
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We've already established here that while women are still (although barely these days) the more docile creature when it comes to anything sex, that, infact they like, crave and enjoy sex more then men. Something I've known for most my life anyhow.
What? Nobody established s***. And assuming is stupid.

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BUT, here is another stat to ponder folks.....all the threads here tend shine a negative view on men as watchers and wierdos for watching porn........did you know that about six years ago they did a major study on porn and found a mind boggling stat in their data? That 47% of people watch porn online, are WOMEN!!! Yes, women!
OMG! No effing way!

There is nothing wrong with watching mainstream porn. My BF could care less if I do because we have a great sex life but sometimes one of us is out of town or OMG maybe we just want to see what the other one is curious about or maybe wants to try.

But lol at anyone who thinks their SO doesn't just because you tell them they can't. They just hide it from you.
 
Old 03-01-2014, 01:02 AM
 
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Porn is cheating and people like you are part of the problem.
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Now the truth of the post is coming out.
Holy crap, no kidding!

Now how the hell am I going to tell my BF I just cheated on him while he was out of town! Wonder if "hey babe, I have something new I have been dying to do to you" would ease his pain of me porn cheating on him?
 
Old 03-01-2014, 01:24 AM
 
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Now how the hell am I going to tell my BF I just cheated on him while he was out of town! Wonder if "hey babe, I have something new I have been dying to do to you" would ease his pain of me porn cheating on him?
OMG. I'm totally LOL over here. That was hilarious!!!

You'll have to tell us what he says....after you ease the pain with that statement though.
 
Old 03-01-2014, 01:31 AM
 
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OMG. I'm totally LOL over here. That was hilarious!!!

You'll have to tell us what he says....after you ease the pain with that statement though.
Haha, I will.
 
Old 03-01-2014, 02:57 AM
 
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Being in a committed relationship and in love doesn't mean the sex is fulfilling or that they even want to have sex. That's real life.
So? If you are in love and committed one shouldn't have to NEED sex to stay loving and committed. What if something happened to their partner such as an injury or illness that left them unable to perform? I would hope they'd still be able to love and care for each other.

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Old 03-01-2014, 03:20 AM
 
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So? If you are in love and committed one shouldn't have to NEED sex to stay loving and committed. What if something happened to their partner such as an injury or illness that left them unable to perform? I would hope they'd still be able to love and care for each other.
So here's a story......A guy I know, loves his wife very much. He is very committed to her and would never cheat on her. HOWEVER, she doesn't like sex, isn't into it, thinks it's dirty and gross. She just lies there until he gets off and then goes and showers. Oh, she loves him too and is committed to him too. So, he gets sex, MAYBE once a month, but it's usually like once every three months. And it's always pity sex.

I'm sorry. But do you think she is "satisifying" him? I guess you could say she is, even though she is just lying there because he finishes. But yeah, he is super sad and wonders what to do about the situation. He has tried everything to get her to feel more comfy with sex. She just can't (and no, there was no abuse or anything like that. She was just raised in a very religious home).

Nope. sorry. Ask any man if that's "satisfying". I would think most of them would say no.
 
Old 03-01-2014, 04:00 AM
 
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So here's a story......A guy I know, loves his wife very much. He is very committed to her and would never cheat on her. HOWEVER, she doesn't like sex, isn't into it, thinks it's dirty and gross. She just lies there until he gets off and then goes and showers. Oh, she loves him too and is committed to him too. So, he gets sex, MAYBE once a month, but it's usually like once every three months. And it's always pity sex.

I'm sorry. But do you think she is "satisifying" him? I guess you could say she is, even though she is just lying there because he finishes. But yeah, he is super sad and wonders what to do about the situation. He has tried everything to get her to feel more comfy with sex. She just can't (and no, there was no abuse or anything like that. She was just raised in a very religious home).

Nope. sorry. Ask any man if that's "satisfying". I would think most of them would say no.
Well, if he really loves her for her and everything else about her and then he should be happy. If sex was that important to him he shouldn't have married her. I can give you another story:

My uncle is happily married, been so for 34 years and is in love with his wife always hugs/kisses her, does nice and sweet things for her, they are always joking/laughing with each other but they have only had sex a few times during their marriage. I've talked to his wife many times and he just has never really cared for it, even when he was young, but just loves everything else about the relationship/being in a relationship and she to is quite happy and has never really cared for sex either but they still love each other, go on trips together all the time etc. etc. They have one son who is an adult and doing well for himself. She has told me their relationship has always been fine and it has never really been a big part of their relationship.

True, it may be a small minority but it can happen. A couple can have a "sexless marriage" and still be perfectly happy and satisfied.

Oh, and needless to say, as she has told me he has never been into watching porn or any of that, and both are very religious. I very much doubt he has ever had much of a "drive" to seek out other women.
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