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Old 04-26-2014, 06:37 PM
 
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Are you still in your teens? Sometimes girls gain more hips when they mature. It's hard to imagine you with a pronounced butt and no hips.

Ruth4Truth, I know what she means, but can't picture it in my mind.
Im 20 years old
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Old 04-26-2014, 06:45 PM
 
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Are you still in your teens? Sometimes girls gain more hips when they mature. It's hard to imagine you with a pronounced butt and no hips.

Ruth4Truth, I know what she means, but can't picture it in my mind.
if u look at me directly i dont look curvy, if i had widen hips and narrow waist then i would look curvy, but from the side i look good bcz of butt
i can show u a picture if u have an email
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Old 04-26-2014, 06:49 PM
 
Location: Warren, OH
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hi,im considered as a banana shaped'' 35-28-38'' ,i have boobs and butt but i dont have hips or well definded waist,i dont feel satisfied of my self and i dont know if im attractive or not? most of the times i feel im not.
by the way my height is 163 cm, 59 kg.

(sorry for my english)
thanks

I think that if you need the validation of strange people on the internet, who may or may not even be men; in order to experience validation, then you need to speak to a counselor.

I sincerely mean this.

Best of luck.
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Old 04-26-2014, 06:58 PM
 
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3 pages and still no pics

fuh cowta hir...
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Old 04-26-2014, 07:40 PM
 
Location: In the Pearl of the Purchase, Ky
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What does it matter what your body looks like. When you meet the right person they won't be looking at the body, but the person in the body. That's all that matters.
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Old 04-26-2014, 07:46 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I think that if you need the validation of strange people on the internet, who may or may not even be men; in order to experience validation, then you need to speak to a counselor.

I sincerely mean this.

Best of luck.
Agreed. Are you the same young person that is obsessive about asking about men's taste in a woman's backside? If so, I mentioned that counseling would be a good idea in those threads as well.
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Old 04-26-2014, 08:20 PM
 
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Calisthenics, Pilates, Yoga and this (your ethnic mix made me think of this)


Sadie BellyDance - YouTube

Do not focus on weight. Weight is not necessarily a good indicator for visual appeal to men. From experience too many women fret on this. Note that muscle mass weighs more than fat so if you tone up / strengthen your inner core and do some belly dance as practice you will likely get a better feeling of body control and confidence. Couple that with making the best of what you were given should do wonders for how men will perceive you visually. i.e. comfortable in your 'skin' a quiet confidence and grace in bearing(comportment / deportment) will do wonders for any woman.
I think people shouldn't even know how much they weigh, it's that unimportant. They should know how strong they are and how lean they are and keep track of what they put in their body, both in quantity and quality. The rest of your post is gold, made me consciously aware of how attracted to the body movement and language of women I really am, never had thought about it. How they hold themselves and move says so much about them. When a woman really nails it being around her is intoxicating.
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Old 04-26-2014, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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hi,im considered as a banana shaped'' 35-28-38'' ,i have boobs and butt but i dont have hips or well definded waist,i dont feel satisfied of my self and i dont know if im attractive or not? most of the times i feel im not.
by the way my height is 163 cm, 59 kg.

(sorry for my english)
thanks
Your size seems normal. Some light exercising (walking/jogging) and a healthy diet can improve your appearance.
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Old 04-26-2014, 08:37 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Ruth4Truth, I know what she means, but can't picture it in my mind.
Narrow hips, but she packs it in the rear. I have kind of medium hips, not noticeably wide, but when I gain weight, it goes to the rear.
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Old 04-26-2014, 09:29 PM
 
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when it comes to men and the women body, you can be the ugliest thing out there and some guy will be trying to remove you from your panties
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