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BUT SO ARE MEN!! There are men who want to be single and there are women who want to be single. There are men who share women and women who share men. Men hold out for better too. Men don't ask out undateable women because they are holding out for better. Seriously? This is your answer?
Almost no men want to be single as in romantically and sexually devoid for long periods of time. Almost no men want to share women (except in orgies), whereas women will share the same man for extended periods.
Men here have won the argument over and over, from looks-maxing differences to me even destroying the myth of near-equal loneliness among teens. Shall I add that men (and women also) who aren't outgoing (which is virtually required by some unthinking women and some unthinking employers) can do almost nothing to change that? And as a rule women respond with nastiness (getting to the point I'll have to DM staff) and generally telling men to suck it up. Do you really think Elliot Rodger and other online women-haters didn't get that way in part from man-bashing online? How about you start caring about the spiritual genocide happening to a sizable percentage of today's young males? What if it were your son or brother?
In a series of messages, Bhide allegedly wrote that “everything Elliot did is perfectly justified" and that "I am the next Elliot Rodger and guess what I'll do the right thing this time."
"I'll make sure I only kill women," he wrote in another post, according to court documents obtained by KIRO.
Seriously, if you are a single male and are angry with women, please, get a hobby, watch some porn, etc. Do anything but blame human beings for not wanting to be around you, because you've just proven that they're right.
The point was that the 23 YO man doesn't want a 45 YO female. Men get what they want remember? A 45 yo man with a 23 yo woman on his arm gets his ego boosted but a 23 yo man with a 45 yo woman doesn't (unless she's rich and he's a sugar baby*).
This can backfire. Dh had a friend in college who set out to find a rich old woman and marry her so he could inherit her money. He found one and married her but she out lived him.
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Seriously, if you are a single male and are angry with women, please, get a hobby, watch some porn, etc. Do anything but blame human beings for not wanting to be around you, because you've just proven that they're right.
THIS is the problem. It's their thoughts and actions that make people not want to be around them but they can't see that.
Almost no men want to be single as in romantically and sexually devoid for long periods of time. Almost no men want to share women (except in orgies), whereas women will share the same man for extended periods.
Men here have won the argument over and over, from looks-maxing differences to me even destroying the myth of near-equal loneliness among teens. Shall I add that men (and women also) who aren't outgoing (which is virtually required by some unthinking women and some unthinking employers) can do almost nothing to change that? And as a rule women respond with nastiness (getting to the point I'll have to DM staff) and generally telling men to suck it up. Do you really think Elliot Rodger and other online women-haters didn't get that way in part from man-bashing online? How about you start caring about the spiritual genocide happening to a sizable percentage of today's young males? What if it were your son or brother?
Care to support your claims? You say almost no men want to be single? Support that claim with data please. You repeating what you want to believe over and over does not make it true nor does it convince anyone but you. When you look at stats, men are more likely as women to end up in relationships. How do I know? Because there are more single women than there are single men and for men the odds get better and better and better as they age while they get worse and worse and worse for women.
You just keep repeating the same crap over and over without proof and then wonder why people don't believe you. Prove your point. What percentage of men are single not by choice compared to women single not by choice. IRL, I know more women who are single but would prefer not to be than men who are single but would prefer not to be. My experience (which is just as valid as your since that seems to be all you have to go on) flies in the face of yours. Data supports that there are not more single men than single women. In fact, data supports the opposite. There are 100 single women for every 86 single men. Where is your proof that enough women are choosing to be single that they are creating a situation where men can't find a mate?
Equal numbers of men and women are on online dating sites. This tells me that equal numbers of men and women are looking for a mate. If a significant number of women didn't want a mate, we wouldn't see equal numbers of men and women looking. We'd see FEWER women looking. If your claim is true that a significant portion of women are choosing to be single creating men who don't want to be single, explain why we're seeing equal numbers of men and women on the 10 top dating sites?
Edited to add: This data supports both of our claims. Since there are more single women than men and there are equal numbers on dating sites there are more women who are not looking, however, there are equal numbers of men and women looking so this is not creating a situation where men can't find a mate because women are not looking. I'm sure there are men who can't buy a date just as there are women who can't buy a date but it's not because women aren't looking.
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Seriously, if you are a single male and are angry with women, please, get a hobby, watch some porn, etc. Do anything but blame human beings for not wanting to be around you, because you've just proven that they're right.
THIS is the problem. It's their thoughts and actions that make people not want to be around them but they can't see that.
Oh they can see it- they just don't care what people want. There is no respect for what others want. They only see themselves. Welcome to the world of the psychopath.
Care to support your claims? You say almost no men want to be single? Support that claim with data please. You repeating what you want to believe over and over does not make it true nor does it convince anyone but you. When you look at stats, men are more likely as women to end up in relationships. How do I know? Because there are more single women than there are single men and for men the odds get better and better and better as they age while they get worse and worse and worse for women.
You just keep repeating the same crap over and over without proof and then wonder why people don't believe you. Prove your point. What percentage of men are single not by choice compared to women single not by choice. IRL, I know more women who are single but would prefer not to be than men who are single but would prefer not to be. My experience (which is just as valid as your since that seems to be all you have to go on) flies in the face of yours. Data supports that there are not more single men than single women. In fact, data supports the opposite. There are 100 single women for every 86 single men. Where is your proof that enough women are choosing to be single that they are creating a situation where men can't find a mate?
Equal numbers of men and women are on online dating sites. This tells me that equal numbers of men and women are looking for a mate. If a significant number of women didn't want a mate, we wouldn't see equal numbers of men and women looking. We'd see FEWER women looking. If your claim is true that a significant portion of women are choosing to be single creating men who don't want to be single, explain why we're seeing equal numbers of men and women on the 10 top dating sites?
Edited to add: This data supports both of our claims. Since there are more single women than men and there are equal numbers on dating sites there are more women who are not looking, however, there are equal numbers of men and women looking so this is not creating a situation where men can't find a mate because women are not looking. I'm sure there are men who can't buy a date just as there are women who can't buy a date but it's not because women aren't looking.
Outstanding post. I feel like these posts are just going to fuel his yay!attention!-fire though. These MRA whiners don't seem to see why they are looked at as the detritus and bane of society. I mean for god's sake, they *keep killing random people*.
The guys that hang out on those incel forums are very disturbed. It's not just about not getting women, they hate everything. They are self-loathing and are disgusted by aging, not just of women but of themselves. They seem to think everyone should be nubile teenagers in the garden of eden forever, frolicking and making love on beds of roses. If it isn't that, then let's just kill ourselves. They can't handle any form of reality it seems. That sounds so much like Eliot Rodger. They can't deal with life, so they blame women. Their problems are so much bigger than not being able to date though, very dark.
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A 45 yo man with a 23 yo woman on his arm gets his ego boosted but a 23 yo man with a 45 yo woman doesn't (unless she's rich and he's a sugar baby*).
