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dont buy drinks, unless you really hit it off with a girl, or its going to be awkward.
Just go for anything, what her interested are etc. been to bars many times.
yeah sending a drink is like saying "you are a piece of meat I need to get drunk to do it with". Any girl really impressed by that isn't a girl of substance.
Too much compliments says "i just want to....you"
If you are looking for a genuine real relationship, just be you. Be honest, open, friendly.
Ask questions. Honestly, knowing someone is interested in us if really flattering. But not like interrogation style cause that seems stalkerish
Don't just send a drink... you should work a little harder, and so should she for that freebie! I had many female acquaintances especially in college who would actually bank on freebies and had no interest in meeting a guy. So tread carefully on that...
Also... unless you're actually in a conversation and seem to be hitting it off with someone, stay away from random compliments. Comes on a bit strong if you just walked up to someone to say, "I love your smile". If things are going well then you can break the ice on that and you can explain what made her catch your eye.
There's really no "best way" of breaking the ice... it's really a trial and error thing. Just be yourself... be genuine... and don't act cocky or like a hot shot, nobodies buying it, LOL!
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