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little by little I guess ive become a little resentful, towards women. I used to hAve huge heart and it's not like me to be this way. How have you overcome this feeling of hate and how do you get back to loving the other sex?
Just bad experiences, and im not longer positive lately. I just seem to write people off because of my own unhappiness, it's not their fault. I can't find a way to heal
get rid of the hate in your life period. the first thing you have to do is stop hating yourself, as that is where all your hatred starts.
next you need to get to the point where you take life as it comes, the good, bad or ugly. remember that the only easy day was yesterday, and that you have to deal with what ever life throws at you. once you learn to take life in stride and keep moving forward, things will start to look different.
I guess we would have ot better understand hwy you are resentful but thats like hating every teacher b/c I had one bad teacher I didn't like or hating every guy because some guy picked on me in high school. Realize that all women are unique, some are better than others and you can't hold against women b. what women a did you last week.
Have you considered counseling? It is the fastest, most effective way for a mentally healthy person like yourself to alter their thinking, and their happiness level.
Just bad experiences, and im not longer positive lately. I just seem to write people off because of my own unhappiness, it's not their fault. I can't find a way to heal
Same thing that you do when anything else is wearing down on you; take an escape from it and pursue something to distract you. Work bogs you down, take a vacation. Even it it's just sleeping at home
Just don't focus on interacting with women for a while, and eventually it'll evolve organically. The first part is the important part, and the one people miss. Don't jump the gun too soon.
Same thing that you do when anything else is wearing down on you; take an escape from it and pursue something to distract you. Work bogs you down, take a vacation. Even it it's just sleeping at home
Just don't focus on interacting with women for a while, and eventually it'll evolve organically. The first part is the important part, and the one people miss. Don't jump the gun too soon.
Good advice. Never got to the point of hating women myself. Just take a break and remove yourself from the dating pool for awhile.
With this free time put it to good use it to further master a hobby or career skill.
Maybe take some time to work on yourself. Think of it this way: there are very few people in this world who haven't at some point been hurt, screwed over or betrayed by someone they were dating, but they still keep trying until they find the right one.
However in your case I'd recommend taking a break from dating until you're in a better place emotionally and spiritually. Damaged people attract other damaged people.
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