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Old 08-05-2015, 09:14 PM
Status: "Just livin' day by day" (set 23 days ago)
 
Location: USA
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From late middle school onward until I was about 26. I wasted so much of my life being scared of everything & timid, hiding away in my own little world. Even with my siblings close in age, I remained distanced from them. One I barely knew & wished I had known her better before she passed on.

Things started to change in baby steps after my sister passed away. I rather not go into a lot of details. I eventually quit a dead-end job that I had worked for many years that affected my health. It wasn't until in my 30's I made friends that didn't revolve around drinking. I have nothing against drinking, I prefer not to be around alcoholics & the bar scene
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Old 08-06-2015, 08:17 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Yes, the 15 years I spent in an abusive relationship; from age 25 to age 40.

Lost my entire 30s and still have not fully recovered at age 64.

My wonderful daughter makes up for that, though.
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Old 08-06-2015, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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My entire childhood and adolescence. Long story.
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Old 08-06-2015, 04:13 PM
 
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definitely. the 90's for me. a waste of a decade relative to the other ones. very glad its just a fleeting memory.
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Old 08-06-2015, 04:47 PM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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definitely. the 90's for me. a waste of a decade relative to the other ones. very glad its just a fleeting memory.
Was indeed a s*** decade cuz I was born in it
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Old 08-06-2015, 05:55 PM
 
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Was indeed a s*** decade cuz I was born in it
Try to look at like you were the only bright spot?

I hope it's getting better for you
Time really does heal wounds.
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Old 08-06-2015, 07:14 PM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Try to look at like you were the only bright spot?

I hope it's getting better for you
Time really does heal wounds.
So do drugs lol.
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Old 08-07-2015, 09:12 AM
 
Location: City of the Angels
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I wouldn't consider them lost years as I was there all the time and knew where I was and what I was doing.
I guess the feeling of remorse has to be there for the feeling of lost.
I use the word squandered because they were so unproductive.
However. I had a good time while there so it could be labled theraputic or a "Chicken Soup for the Soul" time in my life.
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