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Old 09-18-2015, 08:04 AM
 
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I havent read the whole thread, my apologies if this has all been covered already.

OP: labels don't matter. If you want to shag a sexy ts then do so and don't call yourself anything. The penis thing to me means you are shagging a man but whatever. I am female. Never would I be or have I been attracted to manly women. Or some that are transforming with hormones, etc. Or any woman living as a man but 100% intact as a female. They to me are always women, not feminine women, but totally female and I have zero sexual attraction for them.

Regarding bi status: there are grey areas. You can be sexually attracted to men but not romantically. Or sexually attracted to a ts but have zero desire to be emotionally involved. Or, you are pansexual. And the list goes on...

In this day and age you can live as you were born to be. You also are not unique. A bazillion ppl will share your proclivities so just be yourself.
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Old 09-18-2015, 08:09 AM
 
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If being attracted to a tranny is "gay" then how come gay man are rarely attracted to transwomen (myself included)? They look too womanly for us. Heck, for me, being attracted trannies would be a rather "straight" thing.

In my book, a (straight) man is only gay or bi if he fools around with another cisgender man. Those who are into trannies are bicurious at most or just those possessing weird fetishes.
Excellent comment.
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Old 09-21-2015, 07:15 AM
 
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Not gay.
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Old 09-21-2015, 08:15 AM
 
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Gay men do not date transsexual females.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:23 PM
 
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Gay men do not date transsexual females.
I know some gay men that do date transsexuals. But there are more bisexual men that date transsexual females.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:28 PM
 
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I'm transgender (I hate the word "transsexual" because it's nothing to do with sexually). I have dated and had a LTR with straight guys so no. You're still straight and the woman you're interested in would be assured by that. You will get haters and people that call you gay, but ignore them.
How do you know for sure that they are straight? If they are with a biological man with male DNA, they are at least bisexual.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:33 PM
 
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My ex boyfriend was straight My 2 ex girlfriends before that were lesbians and the other was also a MtF transgender girl like me.

A gay man is not going to be attracted to me, neither is a straight woman (though lots of gay men are extremely attractive).
Some gay men have said that they would date a transgender. But I hear some gays won't date a feminine gay man. So does that mean it's okay for straight men to date them because other gay men won't? Just because gay men aren't attracted to transgenders does not mean the man is not gay or bisexual. The man is still dating/having sex with a biological man with male DNA.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:36 PM
 
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I'm going to clear this up again. I am not attracted to nor want to have sex with a Men.

Only Woman. And if I did have sex with a transexual it is only because they look EXACTLY like women. Difference is they have the "extra"
But the attraction to the "extra" is sounding very much like bisexuality. The "extra" is something that biological men have, not biological women.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:38 PM
 
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Actually he wouldn't be gay at all unless he was attracted to masculinity. And tranny is an offensive word.
But transgenders are biological men with male DNA. He would be having sex with a biological man with male DNA.
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Old 09-03-2017, 11:39 PM
 
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Wrong.

Organs do not define gender. Gender is in the mind. He is attracted to a female.

If he was attracted to a transgender male then he might be gay or bi.
It's a male organ. Straight men are attracted to women organs (vaginas).
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