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Old 04-18-2018, 12:11 PM
 
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I'm going to clear this up again. I am not attracted to nor want to have sex with a Men.

Only Woman. And if I did have sex with a transexual it is only because they look EXACTLY like women. Difference is they have the "extra"
Straight men would not be attracted/drawn to the "extra." Only a gay or bisexual man would be attracted to the "extra."


Straight men would be turned off by the "extra."
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Old 04-18-2018, 12:13 PM
 
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Actually he wouldn't be gay at all unless he was attracted to masculinity. And tranny is an offensive word.
A woman can be masculine or a tomboy, but is still a biological woman. A man attracted to her would be straight.


If a man is attracted to a biological man with male DNA born with a penis, he is not straight. Biological men can be feminine or masculine but they are still both men and having sex with a biological man (masculine or feminine) is a homosexual/same sex act.


Straight men are attracted to biological women born with a vagina.
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Old 04-18-2018, 12:15 PM
 
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Wrong.

Organs do not define gender. Gender is in the mind. He is attracted to a female.

If he was attracted to a transgender male then he might be gay or bi.
That's your opinion. A man wanting to have sex with a biological man and is turned on by his penis is a homosexual act in many people's opinions.
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Old 04-18-2018, 12:17 PM
 
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My ex boyfriend was very much straight. And I would get mad if people insinuated otherwise. It's just that some people are able to see transwomen as women, not men. I have also dated lesbians who would not be seen dead dating a man.

He isn't straight. He was dating a biological man born with a penis with male DNA. Two biological men together equals a gay relationship. Your boyfriend was bisexual. Straight people get mad if bisexual people claim being straight while having sex with biological men.
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Old 04-18-2018, 02:46 PM
 
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Not to be vulgar but can I ask ''Why does it f*cking matter"?

Seriously. Most people in society (at least Western ones) have generally come to be more accepting of non-traditional sexual desires and sexual orientations; even if most people who know you would be disapproving, can you not hide it?
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Old 04-18-2018, 03:00 PM
 
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What's the intersection between outward appearances and genitalia?
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Old 04-18-2018, 05:17 PM
 
Location: Northern Maine
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Post Op Trans-sexual: Not Gay
Pre Op Trans-sexual (man parts still intact): Gay or Bisexual
That's my viewpoint

Fun Fact: Caitlyn Jenner still has her/his man parts.
Bruce Jenner will always be a man no matter how they surgically mutilate his naughty bits.
Its biological reality , x and y chromosomes don't give a hoot about political correctness delusions
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Old 04-18-2018, 06:04 PM
 
Location: On the Beach
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As a gay man , I would definitely choose to have sex with a woman rather than with a transsexual that has not had ALL the surgery. I am repulsed by “chicks with #&@#s” so if that is where you are headed, I would not define that as gay. It’s something totally different.
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Old 04-18-2018, 07:52 PM
 
Location: East Midlands, UK
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I'm trans and my boyfriend is straight. But does it matter?
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Old 04-18-2018, 08:09 PM
 
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I'm trans and my boyfriend is straight. But does it matter?
I think to the OP it does matter because he's not asking what happens if you're attracted to someone even though the person has the same organ, he is specifically saying that he would want the person to have that organ. He would, specifically, want the person to be male, so the one person who DOES feel it matters is the OP. If it didn't matter to the OP either way then he wouldn't be adamant about wanting this specific combination of traits.

I would say yes, that is a homosexual desire since it all hinges on there being a penis there...if the OP just wanted a beautiful woman he would seek that: a beautiful woman.

Now does it matter that a person is gay/bi? No. If by "matter" you mean, is there anything wrong with it.
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