Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 09-30-2015, 07:56 AM
 
4,834 posts, read 5,747,212 times
Reputation: 5908

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by Larry Caldwell View Post
The most obnoxious cashier interaction I have ever had was a woman who bad mouthed me for buying a Maxim at Safeway. She wanted to know what kind of pervert reads things like that. I told her I was a man, half the human race were men, and she should get over it. She got pretty hostile, but I told her either ring it up or I'm leaving without paying. Other employees noticed. I think she got fired over it, because I never saw her there again.

I prefer to do business with the women over 50, who understand casual conversation is not a come-on. The young cuties don't have their brain in gear yet.
You pay for these? I have a FREE subscription that started in 2002 and doesn't end until 2022
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 09-30-2015, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Somewhere in America
15,479 posts, read 15,651,465 times
Reputation: 28464
Quote:
Originally Posted by angrivated View Post
Can someone explain this please? Is it a horrible thing? Offensive? Pervy? Can you just not stand it?

If so, what does it mean when I do this with all kinds of people behind the counter, not just women, and also see other people do it and them as well, of all different kinds of ages and races and genders?

Can someone please explain why men are not allowed to be polite at the checkout counter or expect common courtesy in return and not be treated differently just because they're a man and you're a woman?
It means you have manners. I own a small retail shop and it's always awkward when I say hello to someone when they come up to the register to pay and they ignore me. I know it's a difficult thing to say hi. Takes a lot of oxygen and uses a great number of muscles.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 08:52 AM
 
4,475 posts, read 6,694,006 times
Reputation: 6637
Quote:
Originally Posted by Zennia View Post
It depends. In New York, that's a sign of affection.



No, it means if they are head down running my items over the scanner, I'm not going to stand there distracting them like some dimwitted airhead who just has to chirpy-chirp. Usually they'll say hello, but guess what? A lot of them don't, and just do their jobs as quickly as they can. Half the time it's because they can barely speak English. I'm okay with that, and, as you apparently did not read what I wrote, I THANK THEM AT THE END.

I'll tell you what's rude: Cherry-picking posts so as to be self-righteous.
I think Amazon Prime just might be perfect for you
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 09:08 AM
 
1,201 posts, read 1,226,861 times
Reputation: 2244
"What does it mean when a guy looks at a female cashier, smiles, and says hi"

he wants to take you home and have his way with you.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 11:23 AM
 
11,411 posts, read 7,826,742 times
Reputation: 21923
People used to worry about what the meaning of Life was. Now they're worried about what the meaning of Hi is. Sheesh.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 11:25 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
14,317 posts, read 22,411,657 times
Reputation: 18436
It could mean that he's pretty damn creepy. I see nothing wrong with a cashier simply wanting to do their job, without all the superficial chatting and small talk that some people like to do.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 11:29 AM
 
11,411 posts, read 7,826,742 times
Reputation: 21923
Quote:
Originally Posted by LexusNexus View Post
It could mean that he's pretty damn creepy. I see nothing wrong with a cashier simply wanting to do their job, without all the superficial chatting and small talk that some people like to do.
Greeting someone with a Hi is not chatting. It's just a common courtesy to acknowledge them. While it could mean someone is creepy, it likely just means they're not a self involved, entitled a-hole who feels superior to the person helping them.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Somewhere in America
15,479 posts, read 15,651,465 times
Reputation: 28464
Quote:
Originally Posted by LexusNexus View Post
It could mean that he's pretty damn creepy. I see nothing wrong with a cashier simply wanting to do their job, without all the superficial chatting and small talk that some people like to do.
When did saying a 2 letter word become chatting or small talk? Is it small talk because the word is 2 letters?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 01:52 PM
 
Location: EPWV
19,567 posts, read 9,575,229 times
Reputation: 21318
A) Maybe they have a thing for you?
B) Maybe they're just being friendly?

Depends on how they are expressing themselves. There's that quick hi and that stretched out hi (for added emphasis and quite possibly some eye contact.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 09-30-2015, 01:58 PM
 
4,834 posts, read 5,747,212 times
Reputation: 5908
Was he grabbing his crotch at the same time he was saying hi?
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 07:26 PM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top