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okay so now imagine if feet were his favorite part of you, and he'd want to incorporate it during sex and couldn't really keep an erection without it would you dump him?
Why? Thats a stupid reason to dump someone
As long as he finds me attractive be it my feet or other parts of body im okay
If he doesnt find me attractive i be worried
Why? Thats a stupid reason to dump someone
As long as he finds me attractive be it my feet or other parts of body im okay
If he doesnt find me attractive i be worried
you seem to be pretty open minded when it comes to sex and fetishes. although you could just probably trying to make me feel better thanks for that. I came to this forum knowing a fetish can't completely go away probably, I just want to stop masturbating too it and see if anyone has any advice or experience with repressing a fetish so I could find normal stuff more attractive.
If it were a girlfriend who could only climax or make girly sounds if she rubbed and did strange things with my feet, I'd be thrilled because at last I would have figured out / found a woman easy to please in that way
I understand with men, satisfying them easily is less pleasing (to some women)
Hmm but if gender-swapped and my GF was BF and I was the girl, I'd be weirded out some ..
I'd say, "You're off by a couple of feet (haha another pun) bring yourself closer to my torso area"
If that didn't work then I'd just chalk it up to another weird date, decide men are a weird bunch
thanks and I understand I shouldn't care what people say, as much as I deny it I feel like this fetish is effecting me deep inside no matter how much I deny it. I just want to stop masturbating to anything all together and see what happens. I don't think fetishes ever go away, but they can't be repressed to a certain degree so it's not all I care about in a women. I just don't like any girls feet, they have to be physically attractive or it doesn't really turn me on. there is also pressure like I said, my brothers both have girlfriends I'm sure my parents wonder why I've never been in a relationship, my mom actually asked me if I was gay lol.
Well what got me to quit masturbating years ago was when I learned that the testosterone that gets wasted has to be regenerated by the body, and that is a wasteful process (I could save money on food if I stopped masturbating so much). That's not a made-up point, it's the truth
I learned testosterone is used to regulate body fat and if it's always being wasted then I'd get unsightly wide hips for a man, and other embarrassing features on a male body (which go away when I stopped) I think I had bad acne but that's gone away
If I watched porn I made it so I only watched, didn't actually masturbate
Then it became that porn was annoying, the actresses were annoying, the subject matter was filthy/painful to watch/imagine -- it wasn't pleasing when I didn't satisfy myself -- so now I've stopped watching porn except during long dry spells and even then don't masturbate because of my first point
So you see there's a chemical/nutritional element to easing off slowly from the whole thing
you seem to be pretty open minded when it comes to sex and fetishes. although you could just probably trying to make me feel better thanks for that. I came to this forum knowing a fetish can't completely go away probably, I just want to stop masturbating too it and see if anyone has any advice or experience with repressing a fetish so I could find normal stuff more attractive.
I personally like it in general when my bf touches my feet especially when i wear heels foot massages are sexy
And it turns on my bf and he likes it more when i paint my toes red
I think its pretty normal to have a foot fetish thou
I think you are just havin bad luck meeting woman who are not open minded about it.
If thats the case you need to keep looking
Someone will be open about it and some woman like a sexy foot massage
Well what got me to quit masturbating years ago was when I learned that the testosterone that gets wasted has to be regenerated by the body, and that is a wasteful process (I could save money on food if I stopped masturbating so much). That's not a made-up point, it's the truth
I learned testosterone is used to regulate body fat and if it's always being wasted then I'd get unsightly wide hips for a man, and other embarrassing features on a male body (which go away when I stopped) I think I had bad acne but that's gone away
If I watched porn I made it so I only watched, didn't actually masturbate
Then it became that porn was annoying, the actresses were annoying, the subject matter was filthy/painful to watch/imagine -- it wasn't pleasing when I didn't satisfy myself -- so now I've stopped watching porn except during long dry spells and even then don't masturbate because of my first point
So you see there's a chemical/nutritional element to easing off slowly from the whole thing
ah that kinda makes sense. you see something else that bothered me was I used to be pretty fat in middle school up to last year actually when I decided to lose weight, I had love handles and moobs aswell. I lost about 70 lbs. I hit a growth spurt from 5'9 to 6'1. and now my shoulders are broad and my hips got smaller, I feel like stopping masturbating is going to be very hard but I feel it's necessary for health and the sake of being able to have sex.
A foot fetish isn't necessarily a deal-breaker for most women. You can probably incorporate that into regular sex without it seeming too strange. The key to fitting a fetish into a normal relationship is to make sure that not every sexual encounter is only about the fetish...let your partner know you enjoy the rest of her body, even if the feet are your favorite part.
About the submissive stuff, you need to figure out what you really want from a partner before you try that with someone. Talk about your fantasies with the partner before you try it. You have to go slowly with that kind of stuff, at least if you and your partner are equally inexperienced, and you have to trust them to stop if you really want them to stop. And sometimes you'll talk about a fantasy together and it will appeal to both of you and then when you try it, one or both of you will find that the reality is less appealing than the fantasy, and that's okay too.
I'm pretty sure that masturbation doesn't cause wide hips or low testosterone, and masturbation is actually a good way of training yourself to please a partner, because it helps you learn to last longer. At your age, you'll probably just have explicit dreams if you stop masturbating, and then you'll decide to feel guilty if those dreams are about feet.
A foot fetish isn't necessarily a deal-breaker for most women. You can probably incorporate that into regular sex without it seeming too strange. The key to fitting a fetish into a normal relationship is to make sure that not every sexual encounter is only about the fetish...let your partner know you enjoy the rest of her body, even if the feet are your favorite part.
About the submissive stuff, you need to figure out what you really want from a partner before you try that with someone. Talk about your fantasies with the partner before you try it. You have to go slowly with that kind of stuff, at least if you and your partner are equally inexperienced, and you have to trust them to stop if you really want them to stop. And sometimes you'll talk about a fantasy together and it will appeal to both of you and then when you try it, one or both of you will find that the reality is less appealing than the fantasy, and that's okay too.
I'm pretty sure that masturbation doesn't cause wide hips or low testosterone, and masturbation is actually a good way of training yourself to please a partner, because it helps you learn to last longer. At your age, you'll probably just have explicit dreams if you stop masturbating, and then you'll decide to feel guilty if those dreams are about feet.
i always wake up with morning wood with my thing against the bed. I'm pretty sure masturbation has nothing to do with testosterone but I'm not sure. I just want to stop masturbating to feet because it will repress my fetish and then maybe it will rewire my brain. I'm currently on another forum aswell with people with fetishes saying it helped them to not masturbate at all. I'm stuck at the moment.
i always wake up with morning wood with my thing against the bed. I'm pretty sure masturbation has nothing to do with testosterone but I'm not sure. I just want to stop masturbating to feet because it will repress my fetish and then maybe it will rewire my brain. I'm currently on another forum aswell with people with fetishes saying it helped them to not masturbate at all. I'm stuck at the moment.
The problem is that there are feet in almost all porn movies...finding a porn movie with people with no feet would be even weirder than liking the feet in the movies you already watch.
I think you're worrying too much about this. You're young, you're healthy, your body is doing what it should do. Enjoy it, and find a partner to enjoy it with. If you make sex into a huge and complicated issue that makes you feel guilty, that will just cause you issues in the future.
I know someone with a fetish that makes him feel guilty. It's harmless and it's nothing dangerous, but he's consumed with guilt about it. He tries to stop and sometimes he'll go a year without it but that doesn't seem to repress it, it only makes it more intense when it finally happens again. Sometimes I think the guilt is part of what he likes about it. Could that be an issue for you? I think maybe you're also enjoying it when women tell you that you're disgusting or they'd dump a guy who had your fetish...I think you want to be humiliated, at least in a fantasy way.
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What about girls who fart, are smelly, hairy, are mental/psychotic, and other unexpected 'surprises'
Nobody is perfect
Everyone has a deal breaker
It's almost better to make love to a computer screen rather than deal with people because you can shut it off whenever you want to
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