Okay, as some of you know my mom passed not to long ago. And I admitted that I loved her but didn't like her.
As time goes on I have come to realize that I have never belonged any where I've moved around a lot & never got the chance to develop childhood friends like some have. I have tons of family back North & as much as I want to be close to them they don't seem very interested. I told one of my cousin's that I didn't want to lose touch them again, her mom & her dad died within five years from the other. And our grandmother passed too. I was hoping that they would know how I feel & reach out more.
I can only keep trying to reach out to them for so long before I give up.
Sadly my mom was the closest family member I had & now that she's gone there seems to be a void there. Was never close to my dad & he's been dead for 16 years now. I have my wife & I have told her how I felt she understands this too, as she has moved around much herself. I'm happy I have her in my life don't get me wrong but not having blood family to reach out to & say "Hi, what's up?" tends to me one feel a bit more alone. Perhaps it's because for the time we are staying in the house she left us.
Or that her death is still very recent.
I've always had friend who were closer then blood although this seems to be pretty common these days.
At some point in our lives, do we all tend to feel this way? Either with family or friends maybe even both?