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That's not much different from many women these days.. they bore easily and need constant stimulation because the top tier males will provide it so these top tier men are the standard in which us bores have to live up too... a lot of us don't care to be some social butterfly who's cracking jokes all day long.. it gets tiring after a while doing it and listening to people who do it so we simply live our lives and if a woman comes along that can put up with us, so be it... some men have identified themselves with a movement dedicated to this which I won't name here, haha.
To each their own. If you wanna try to find a unicorn, get on social media and get yourself 300 facebook friends like the typical "normal" woman has today.
Did you come to this thread to complain about women or to give advice? If the former then this thread isn't for you. Loll, I love how you only commented on how daydreaming affects my dating life, but had nothing to say about anything else I mentioned.
Either way, I mentioned that I know excessive daydreaming is not healthy, anything to add to that? Any experience dealing with this? Any advice other than "get yourself 300 facebook friends"? Any tips on how to be able to hold better conversations without daydreaming so much? Anything?
Nic781, do you have a general practitioner or some other medical professional you can schedule an appointment with? Even if this isn't ADD, as I said, it doesn't seem healthy. You may well need some kind of professional help (medical, counseling, somthing). Good luck to you!
My mom tells me I have ADD all of the time, but I never really paid any attention to her. But as time goes on I start to show more and more symptoms of it. That may be something I have to look into. Thanks!
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Originally Posted by SMSweeney
I think you're a novelist.
Maybe you should try writing down your daydreams.
I actually used to do this, but when you have so many daydreams in your head it's hard to keep up and it can get overwhelming. It wouldn't hurt to try doing it again.
Yes, I'll agree with that! And I'm not even entirely convinced of the medical reality of ADD, but many medical professionals are and thus treat it. What they mean, from what I understand/remember, is daydreaming to the extreme degree that the OP describes, when it interferes with life. This does not sound healthy to this fellow daydreamer.
Medical professionals can do next to nothing for problems of the mind, they fare better with organic brain issues. ADD is a polite term for selfishness, spoilt bratism. HAd it myself, happy pills do absolutely nothing for self centerdness. The illness exists but its self caused and there are no medications that affect the will.
Mental problems become serious problems when they interfere with work.
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