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I don't care what standards people have as long as they aren't hypocrites. You have no right to complain about the numbers of women's sex partners if you've bedded 50 women yourself, and vice versa. If you can't hold yourself to the same standard you hold others too than in general I wouldn't trust nor want to hang out with you. Dishonest, deceptive people are my hangup.
Wrong. The sexuality of men and women is different and should be judged differently. For proof, see people's reactions to female teachers who sleep with students compared to male teachers who sleep with students. In the latter case you will almost never hear someone argue that the girl he was sleeping with probably had the time of her life, and almost never hear a woman say "where were those teachers when I was in high school".
Wrong. The sexuality of men and women is different and should be judged differently. For proof, see people's reactions to female teachers who sleep with students compared to male teachers who sleep with students. In the latter case you will almost never hear someone argue that the girl he was sleeping with probably had the time of her life, and almost never hear a woman say "where were those teachers when I was in high school".
Again...comments, rules, and standards opined by men.
The women are aghast (I know I'd kill the woman who touched my son), and the guys are like, "Heh heh heh...where were those teachers when I was in school?!"
Men are not threatened by female sexuality. It's a lie feminists have told themselves to rationalize sleeping around and distract the negative attention away from themselves and their own actions.
Why should they have to rationalize sleeping around?
Dudes do it all the time.
Every time I hear this particular mythology (so far only on C-D) I am really thrown. What a complete misunderstanding and mischaracterization of female sexuality. Where the F did this idea ever come from?
I didn't say that those guys' fears are valid. I'm saying that's how they feel.
Learn to read and stop responding without understanding what was written. Again...I don't actually think that's how things are, but if you want to know why SOME men act a certain way....this is why.
Why should they have to rationalize sleeping around?
Dudes do it all the time.
Most dudes can't do it even if they want to which is why the ones who can are considered studs. For a guy it is an accomplishment, for a woman it is just saying yes a lot. It's not the same thing.
Why should they have to rationalize sleeping around?
Dudes do it all the time.
Where did I say men DON'T have to rationalize it?
What men do has no bearing on what women do. I don't say to myself, hey HE did, so it'll be good for me too. That's a very poor way to live your life.
Women who sleep around ALWAYS rationalize it. Why? Becuase they are looking to blame someone else for their behavior, hey GUYS do it, so I can do it. Again, very immature way to make decisions. You are mimicking someone else's behavior and then blaming THEM for you doing it.
Most dudes can't do it even if they want to which is why the ones who can are considered studs. For a guy it is an accomplishment, for a woman it is just saying yes a lot. It's not the same thing.
i don't know any guy who thinks it is an *accomplishment* to sleep around. It's pretty easy to do these days. And I don't find it better/worse if a man/woman does it. No distinction there.
The only difference is that women try to rationalize it to make it OK in their heads. Men don't do that. In that way, men are more honest, I think.
i don't know any guy who thinks it is an *accomplishment* to sleep around. It's pretty easy to do these days. And I don't find it better/worse if a man/woman does it. No distinction there.
The only difference is that women try to rationalize it to make it OK in their heads. Men don't do that. In that way, men are more honest, I think.
It is easier than ever for the men it would have always come naturally to. The rich are getting richer, so to speak. If you got the skills this is a great time to be a guy. Women will rationalize themselves in to your pants at the drop of a hat!
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