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Old 11-02-2017, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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I think this whole thing is ridiculous. Women can't be "empowerful and liberated" on the one hand and helpless little girls on the other; you can't have it both ways. If you're over 18, you can say no. If a man persists, you can call the police. Clearly, in certain situations, it's a quid pro quo; one hand washes the other (and thus it always has been in Hollywood)...


As for regular people, what are we calling "assault" these days... Flirting? Coming on to? Pursuing? Acting like a man?


Please (and I'm a woman).

Is there a vomit emoticon?

I dont know whats more revolting, the blatant and proud ignorance or the alienated oppessed that thinks she is cool act

 
Old 11-02-2017, 10:59 AM
 
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BTW, what exactly do you mean by "acting like a man?"

In all of nature, the male is the natural sexual aggressor; it's the female's prerogative to accept or reject advances. If bodily forced, call the police. End of story.
The vast majority of sexual assaults/rapes go unreported. Why do you think that is?
 
Old 11-02-2017, 11:00 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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BTW, what exactly do you mean by "acting like a man?"

In all of nature, the male is the natural sexual aggressor; it's the female's prerogative to accept or reject advances. If bodily forced, call the police. End of story.



Natural sexual agressor!

And then they say patriarchy do not exist.

Talk about new ways of defending rapists.
 
Old 11-02-2017, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Buenos Aires, Argentina
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The vast majority of sexual assaults/rapes go unreported. Why do you think that is?

It is because women are such an idiotic species that they cant even dial 911...you know...they are dumb like that
 
Old 11-02-2017, 11:20 AM
 
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It is because women are such an idiotic species that they cant even dial 911...you know...they are dumb like that
I guess so. Cause there can't possibly be any other reasons.
 
Old 11-02-2017, 11:27 AM
 
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BTW, what exactly do you mean by "acting like a man?"

In all of nature, the male is the natural sexual aggressor; it's the female's prerogative to accept or reject advances. If bodily forced, call the police. End of story.
Well, it's the male's responsibility to accept the female's rejection of his advances. And when he doesn't and advances it beyond her permission, we call it sexual assault and/ or rape.

So, I guess that sums up who the responsible party is and it is not the victim.
 
Old 11-02-2017, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Inis Fada
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When she willingly went to a stranger's house, she consented.
Please tell me you're not serious. Willingly accepting an invitation to enter into someone's home is not the same as consenting to sex.
 
Old 11-02-2017, 02:40 PM
 
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Another example of responsibility was my coworker got drunk and fooled around with a married man in her car. The wife found out and my coworker said she was drunk and that is why it happened. Well she needs to take responsibility that she drank that much to let it happen.
Two entirely different issues. She shares responsibility here (assuming that she didn't force him into the car and "fool" around with him)

OP, she may be stupid for getting drunk, but responsibility is all on him
 
Old 11-02-2017, 04:50 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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What would bear some of the responsibility look like? I mean, if you get raped, you will bear that responsibility for life, so I think that would be enough.
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Old 11-02-2017, 06:16 PM
 
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People have a right to not be assaulted and raped. People make bad choices that make them vulnerable, but taking advantage of that vulnerability is morally screwed up beyond recognition.
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