Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 11-12-2017, 11:39 AM
 
6,005 posts, read 4,787,522 times
Reputation: 14470

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by winterbird View Post
I was born into a cult. I always worried that I would make god mad and he'd kill me during Armageddon.

Yeah, it was cray cray.

You were seriously born into a cult? That has to be an experience unlike any other.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 11-12-2017, 11:48 AM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 6 days ago)
 
35,627 posts, read 17,961,729 times
Reputation: 50650
When someone gives me a gift I don't want, I keep it anyway because I worry that they'll ask to borrow it or want to see it again for some reason, you know, to remind themselves of the brand because they want another one.

I haven't shaken that fear, and keep everything people give me as gifts.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-12-2017, 06:36 PM
 
14,078 posts, read 16,609,532 times
Reputation: 17654
When I had a front loading washing machine, I wouldn’t close the door and start the cycle without first going to find my cat to make sure that she hadn’t somehow snuck in with the laundry (even though I was 99% sure that she wasn’t in there). Now that I have a top loader, I don’t worry about it.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 05:43 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
88,568 posts, read 84,777,093 times
Reputation: 115083
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar View Post
When I had a front loading washing machine, I wouldn’t close the door and start the cycle without first going to find my cat to make sure that she hadn’t somehow snuck in with the laundry (even though I was 99% sure that she wasn’t in there). Now that I have a top loader, I don’t worry about it.
That's not crazy, though. It has happened, with both the washer and the dryer. People have accidentally killed their pets that way. Google it, if you want--but you don't really want to, trust me.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 06:45 AM
 
14,078 posts, read 16,609,532 times
Reputation: 17654
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mightyqueen801 View Post
That's not crazy, though. It has happened, with both the washer and the dryer. People have accidentally killed their pets that way. Google it, if you want--but you don't really want to, trust me.
I did Google it and I was horrified! I just thought it was weird to worry about it in my case because I knew she wasn't around at the time that I was putting the laundry in, but I would still walk all the way upstairs to find her and make sure that she hadn't somehow slipped in without me noticing. I also have to make sure I see her right before I leave for work because I did once accidentally lock her in a closet all day.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
88,568 posts, read 84,777,093 times
Reputation: 115083
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar View Post
I did Google it and I was horrified! I just thought it was weird to worry about it in my case because I knew she wasn't around at the time that I was putting the laundry in, but I would still walk all the way upstairs to find her and make sure that she hadn't somehow slipped in without me noticing. I also have to make sure I see her right before I leave for work because I did once accidentally lock her in a closet all day.
Ha, I did that once, too. Came home from work and fed my cats and one did not come for her food. She was in the walk-in closet in the bedroom all day.

Ran right for the litterbox when I opened the door.

You do have to watch. They are tricky.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 08:17 AM
 
Location: TN/NC
35,066 posts, read 31,293,790 times
Reputation: 47529
Getting drafted to go to Iraq right after high school. I thought Obama would try to hang on to power and not accept the election results.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Midwest
2,182 posts, read 2,319,833 times
Reputation: 5118
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicci6Squirrels View Post
You were seriously born into a cult? That has to be an experience unlike any other.
Yes. It is a very traumatizing experience. I regularly battle with the fear and control the group had over me and my family (1/2 of them are still in deeply)
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 10:57 AM
 
6,005 posts, read 4,787,522 times
Reputation: 14470
Quote:
Originally Posted by winterbird View Post
Yes. It is a very traumatizing experience. I regularly battle with the fear and control the group had over me and my family (1/2 of them are still in deeply)
I am so sorry.
What a horrible thing to have to go through!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 11-13-2017, 12:06 PM
 
Location: Elsewhere
88,568 posts, read 84,777,093 times
Reputation: 115083
Quote:
Originally Posted by winterbird View Post
Yes. It is a very traumatizing experience. I regularly battle with the fear and control the group had over me and my family (1/2 of them are still in deeply)
Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicci6Squirrels View Post
I am so sorry.
What a horrible thing to have to go through!
There are a couple of people with similar experiences on the R&S forum. I give them credit for escaping, but some are still the mourning the loss of family members who won't speak to them anymore.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Psychology

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 05:04 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top