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Every time you interact with him, every time you tell him how he hurt you, every time you try and call him out on his behavior, YOU ARE GIVING HIM AMMUNITION. You know now that he isn't sorry about anything. So stop interacting with him.
If he continues to harass you, than you say something like "That old chestnut again?" And that's it. That leaves him hanging in the wind, and looking like a fool.
It's really hard, and it's crazymaking that he won't admit to being an ass. But there is nothing you can do about that. For your own sanity, you need to teach yourself to get him out of your head, out of your memories. When you start fuming, be conscious of it and then turn your attention to something awesome in your life. Eventually it will be a distant memory. Of course, it goes along with that that you have to stop making memories with this guy. No contact, no group chat, nothing.
The person who dogged me many years ago in high school is a super successful person working with high level famous people. I became aware of her career when I saw her name in the credits of a tv show. Hadn't seen her or thought of her much after high school. It was mostly a curiosity at that point, but even 15 years after high school I admit that learning this burned a little. So, you know what? Bullies don't always get theirs. Life isn't always fair. Recognize this, move on.
I did cut him off and block him recently. I'm just still sore over all the stuff he did and how he downplays his action and I guess I'm also mad at myself for not standing up to him earlier or properly calling him out on his actions.
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