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Old 07-23-2018, 05:27 AM
 
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I would say half of the guys I know like a girl with pretty feet and 0 of them need that, so it’s very uncommon and not representative of the majority. I think a lady’s hands are nice too but it’s not like some fetish, I just like how soft or manicured she might keep them or whatnot. It doesn’t always have to be a fetish to just notice a girl taking care of herself that’s all I mean Some girls get freaked out if you like anything they think is abnormal but in 2018, liking pretty feet is a big fat so what, so does every other guy.
Of course it’s not common to have a foot fetish, and not representative of the majority. That’s why I said not normal, as in outside the norm. Finding women’s feet attractive is not the same as having a foot fetidh, which I made clear in my post.
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Old 07-23-2018, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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In what world are you living where "foot fetishes aren't normal"?! And comparing that to PEEING on someone or getting peed on?! First of all, it's not even a fetish to like nice feet, by any definition, because it's just another part of the body. People use "fetish" to turn it into something weird when it isn't. I love all of a beautiful woman's body, from her head to her toes, and find it all attractive. It WOULD be weird if some guy wasn't turned on by anything else besides a girl's feet, it would cause serious relationship issues too, and cannot be considered healthy. But in what warped world view would someone think it's "normal" to like butts that you POOP out of, but it's "weird" to like feet?! That's clearly not reality. I don't think much compares to a perfect looking girl with perfectly pedicured feet, they contain literally a quarter of the bones in the body and are thus naturally curvy, which is appealing.

I think it's not normal for a guy to see a supermodel's feet and not find them cute, personally. It's just weird. I'm a straight guy, which means every part of a girl's body is attractive.
Seriously. What are you doing, dude? Are you somehow unaware of the difference between an actual foot fetishist, and a guy who just finds pretty female feet nice in the same way he appreciates other aspects of a beautiful woman's body?

Legit foot fetishes are not normal. Though as kinks go, in the world of people who are kinky, it's one of the more common ones. But what you describe is nothing like the guy who pays a pro for a scene simply to show up and worship her feet. Or the guy who would rather have a "foot job" than sex of any other sort.

And since this thread is about actual paraphilias, I'd say you're being pretty obtuse to even make this statement.

Many things are not NORMAL but that does not make them WRONG.
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Old 07-24-2018, 08:07 PM
 
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First when I saw it I was just speechless and couldn’t believe my eyeballs- then I couldn’t stop laughing At the utter ridiculousness of it, straight absurd.
I really just.cant.believe. it.

A grown a** man, telling Dr Phil that he has a “adult baby disorder” that causes him for blah blah reasons to have to “live like a baby, complete with a custom made high chair, crib, toys, bottle and custom made “baby clothes and jammies “
and a girlfriend who I’m not sure which one is the sicker one of the two because his girlfriend obliges his “need to be a giant baby” and with a straight face reports most of her money is spent on his baby clothes, toys, etc
He is apparently not even embarrassed to sit there on national tv as if he is discussing his college program, that he’s indeed, he spends life laying in his adult size “crib” and drinking his bottle.
Then mentions he sometimes in his high chair will throw his food or have
tantrums. His girlfriend spoon feeds him his baby food while he says “no no, mama, waahhhh!!” bangs on tray for more baby food.

I’m just, wow, what? Is this for real? I didn’t hear him mention any family
Members but I have to wonder what his family would say. “well he always was a crybaby?”
Literally?
One person said no, it’s just a man who doesn’t want to work.
Good God, my dad is rolling over in his grave- adult baby man...what?

Will public places now have to provide adult size high chairs for people with adult baby syndrome? ROFLMAO
In some cases, it's called not getting disciplined enough.
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Old 07-27-2018, 04:31 AM
 
Location: Henderson, NV
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Seriously. What are you doing, dude? Are you somehow unaware of the difference between an actual foot fetishist, and a guy who just finds pretty female feet nice in the same way he appreciates other aspects of a beautiful woman's body?

Legit foot fetishes are not normal. Though as kinks go, in the world of people who are kinky, it's one of the more common ones. But what you describe is nothing like the guy who pays a pro for a scene simply to show up and worship her feet. Or the guy who would rather have a "foot job" than sex of any other sort.

And since this thread is about actual paraphilias, I'd say you're being pretty obtuse to even make this statement.

Many things are not NORMAL but that does not make them WRONG.
So what if he did though?! Would it be more normal in your eyes to like a handjob or whatever else?! I mean based on what exactly? Some societal expectation? The phrase “foot fetish” is always applied to absolutely anyone who thinks one of a woman’s best body parts are attractive. That ain’t a fetish. Any more than liking her smile or nice teeth or long legs or a good butt or whatever else. It’s just idiots who want to make a big deal out of nothing. I’ve never talked, even online, to one guy who would meet the actual definition of fetish in that way but in common parlance you don’t have a boob fetish for liking boobs and being obsessed with them but you do feet. Of course that makes no sense as both guys and girls have nipples and most American guys have boobs too lol but everyone knows they aren’t the same thing.
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Old 07-27-2018, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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So what if he did though?! Would it be more normal in your eyes to like a handjob or whatever else?! I mean based on what exactly? Some societal expectation? The phrase “foot fetish” is always applied to absolutely anyone who thinks one of a woman’s best body parts are attractive. That ain’t a fetish. Any more than liking her smile or nice teeth or long legs or a good butt or whatever else. It’s just idiots who want to make a big deal out of nothing. I’ve never talked, even online, to one guy who would meet the actual definition of fetish in that way but in common parlance you don’t have a boob fetish for liking boobs and being obsessed with them but you do feet. Of course that makes no sense as both guys and girls have nipples and most American guys have boobs too lol but everyone knows they aren’t the same thing.
What are you even talking about? I'm finding you seriously confusing. Your posts seem to have this angry fighting back vibe but over what I have no idea. At all.

Like are you defending your right to appreciate feet? Did I ever say that it was a problem? I don't care what you like, how much you do or don't like it, or what you call it (fetish or not.) That is entirely your business and I am not throwing any shade at you. So again...what is your point?

Extreme fascination with one body part, yeah, there is a place where it becomes an unusual thing. Do you read a criticism in me saying it is not normal? There wasn't one. When I say that something is not normal I am saying that it's something not common to most people in the native culture of the subject.

Yes, an extreme obsession with breasts to the exclusion of other things would constitute a fetish. And I have in fact met extreme foot fetishists, plenty of them. Do you think that they don't exist?

But as I keep saying, there's nothing wrong with them. People don't have to be all the same. "Normal" does not mean "good" or "better."

I am a regular practitioner of BDSM. I have a number of fetishes myself. I am nothing close to normal, here. So why would I be using that as some kind of an insult?
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Old 07-28-2018, 03:01 AM
 
Location: Florida
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So what if he did though?! Would it be more normal in your eyes to like a handjob or whatever else?! I mean based on what exactly? Some societal expectation? The phrase “foot fetish” is always applied to absolutely anyone who thinks one of a woman’s best body parts are attractive. That ain’t a fetish. Any more than liking her smile or nice teeth or long legs or a good butt or whatever else. It’s just idiots who want to make a big deal out of nothing. I’ve never talked, even online, to one guy who would meet the actual definition of fetish in that way but in common parlance you don’t have a boob fetish for liking boobs and being obsessed with them but you do feet. Of course that makes no sense as both guys and girls have nipples and most American guys have boobs too lol but everyone knows they aren’t the same thing.
The difference darlin' is the one man I know who has a foot fetish asked me if he could (keeping it PG 13) have sex with my feet.
That's more than a wee bit difference from just thinking someone has pretty, well formed feet
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Old 07-28-2018, 05:45 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs
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Really, though, people find others to support them for any variety of reasons all the time, and nobody bats an eye at it. It's easy to flip out about this when the behavior is so obviously bizarre and attention-grabbing (which is exactly why it's on Dr. Phil, of course).

But at the end of the day, who really cares if he's chilling at home playing with baby toys, chilling at home camping out on video games, chilling at home building wooden boats in his basement, chilling at home surfing internet porn all day, chilling at home doing fantasy baseball, whatever...and has a S/O who says, "Hey, whatever, I'm cool with it? "


Hey as long as he is a self sufficient person; I hesitate to use the word adult; I don't care. If his fetish IS considered a disability and he receives government assistance for it then I do have a problem with it.
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