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Old 12-29-2018, 01:01 PM
 
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Maybe I’m crazy but I feel like people are saying you don’t look that good in real life.
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Old 12-29-2018, 01:27 PM
 
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Its an insult when the person blantantly says...Dang you got a face only a mamma could love.....

Saying you photographed well in that instance is a compliment....

As a person who 98% of the time is NOT photogenic I can relate to those few captures that have at least shown some good quality to it in the background...or subject lighting....

some folks are their own worse critics...when accepting a kind word.

Its the old fight that goes on when a gent says...darling you look good in that dress....The women will say...Ohh so I dont look good any other time??? Poor Guy can't even give a compliment without backlash.....

Sounds like you might want to rethink how you receive compliments...usually a Thank you will suffice.
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Old 12-29-2018, 03:21 PM
 
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Maybe I’m crazy but I feel like people are saying you don’t look that good in real life.
This is your perception of what they said. Perception is a colored lens. They probably meant that the picture was a good copy of reality...the same as a photo of a lamp, a car, your dog, etc. The camera can't have an opinion by itself. If you don't like your looks you will assume it was an insult.
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Old 12-29-2018, 05:25 PM
 
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Maybe I’m crazy but I feel like people are saying you don’t look that good in real life.
You should accept this complement and not try to stew about a hidden insult, unless this person has a history of being underhanded and insulting.

We all have photos of ourselves that are more or less good. Be grateful if you have a good one.
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Old 12-29-2018, 05:42 PM
 
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I don’t photograph well so if someone tells me I look good in a photograph I’m going to take as a compliment.
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Old 12-29-2018, 05:48 PM
 
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I don’t photograph well so if someone tells me I look good in a photograph I’m going to take as a compliment.
Me too.
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Old 12-29-2018, 05:51 PM
 
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I don’t photograph well so if someone tells me I look good in a photograph I’m going to take as a compliment.
Me three.
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Old 12-29-2018, 06:17 PM
 
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Adriank7. This was a good thread you started in this forum.
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Old 12-29-2018, 06:17 PM
 
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Maybe I’m crazy but I feel like people are saying you don’t look that good in real life.
OK, I'll never compliment a person's photo again. Just in case they're paranoid, and easily offended.




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Old 12-29-2018, 06:20 PM
 
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Adriank7. This was a good thread you started in this forum.
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