Do You Should on Yourself and Others??? (husband, everything)

[jaminhealth]

I learned a long long time ago to NOT go here with myself and others in my life. There are many ways to get messages to yourself and others without the Shoulds....I've heard this Should from so many in my life and I shudder when I hear it and it just came up a little while ago in another topic area and thought I'd post this remninder.

https://www.positivelypositive.com/2...d-on-yourself/

https://www.mediate.com/articles/NobleCbl20140425.cfm

[Mr. Boring]

It depends.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by jaminhealth

I learned a long long time ago to NOT go here with myself and others in my life. There are many ways to get messages to yourself and others without the Shoulds....I've heard this Should from so many in my life and I shudder when I hear it and it just came up a little while ago in another topic area and thought I'd post this remninder.

https://www.positivelypositive.com/2...d-on-yourself/

https://www.mediate.com/articles/NobleCbl20140425.cfm

It seems to me life as a whole is against should. Everything I think should happen doesn't happen and the opposite of that.

[CorporateCowboy]

There are probably many things I ‘should’ do - doesn’t mean I will.

[Jill_Schramm]

Yes, we probably “should” ourselves too much. However, I truly believe that there is a time and season for everything, including feeling obligation.

[lucky2balive]

I stop letting others determine what I should and should not do

[WorkinThruIt]

Should is a word that should be (lol) eradicated from my vocabulary.
Should've as well.
talk about regret and remores and low self-esteem/

[Atlguy39]

I do it way too often. I shouldn't have married my ex-wife, I should have been a better husband, I should have taken a risk with my ex-wife and had kids during the great recession, I should have chosen a different career with less a-holes, etc.