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Starting with my mother who constantly physically abused and belittled me until I ran away at fifteen. Then facing nothing but rejections in my twenties I'm not ashamed to say that I hate women now. At this point who wouldn't?
You are entitled to feel that way about your mother. However, other women may reject you because you are coming at them from the wrong direction. Try to be friends with one women-why not pick an old lady- and then learn from her. By the way, women do not equal, sex, support, or approval/disapproval. We are just people who do not have the same equipment that you do, but may have similar wants, needs and hopes.
No they hate me because I'm ugly and they don't want me approaching them so I don't. They're perfectly justified in hating me for those reasons.
That's not hate on the part of women--that's indifference. Hating someone or something takes energy that must be directed at the person(s) or object of one's derision. It's doubtful that a woman would look at a random man with hatred even if she rejected his advances.
Harboring so much hate on your own part must be exhausting. Would it not be nice to be able to come to a place within your mind and spirit where you'd be free of this useless hatred of yours that's directed towards women who are neither your mother nor represent who she was and what she did to you as a child?
If they're justified...then you have no reason to hate them, and you should definitely take steps to stop it. It should be possible to some degree, if not completely.
Starting with my mother who constantly physically abused and belittled me until I ran away at fifteen. Then facing nothing but rejections in my twenties I'm not ashamed to say that I hate women now. At this point who wouldn't?
Almost everyone would. So you're normal.
The key to successfully disliking (may we call it that?) a group of people is to (1) identify exactly why you dislike them and (2) do it quietly.
In time you may change your mind, but in the meantime don't marry one thinking you can change her.
No I actually try to avoid women as much as possible.
So you're not even trying to help yourself? You think you can judge all women just because of your childhood? Hmmm well then what's the point of your post if you don't want to change?
So the question is...why come here to get perspectives on that? Wasn't it entirely predictable what you'd hear? People in general aren't going to pat you on the head and tell you it's cool to go around hating people for stuff that has nothing to do with them personally. You seem to want some kind of affirmation, or just an opportunity to argue your resignation on the subject.
No, you are not normal. No, this is not healthy. But since you're the only person who could do anything to change that and you clearly don't want to... What do you want from any of us here?
And frankly if you hate women so damn much, then why is it a problem that they don't want you to approach them, and they reject you? Seems like it should be perfect equilibrium causing you no anguish of any kind, I know if I hated someone I would not want them to come be near me and I sure as hell wouldn't be interested in sex, love, or romance. They could reject me all they wanted, and right back at 'em.
I'm guessing the only answer to that is having sexual urges... Which is probably why women feel so wary of men, I don't think most of us simultaneously HATE and want to have sex with the same individual. The very idea is disturbing. Ugly people have sex all the time, dude. This right here is what breaks the deal for you. Not what is skin deep, the ugliness in your head.
No. Women aren’t into you because you aren’t physically or mentally attractive to them. You probably are attractive to some women, just not the ones you want. That’s fine but it doesn’t justify hating all b!tvhes. Just live the best life you can and you will eventually find someone you can F whom you actually want to. Maybe even if just once. But no, hating women isn’t justified. The ones that rejected you, I know how painful it is, so just cut them out of your universe. Delete them from your life so there’s nothing of them left to hate.
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