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You mentioned that guy turned the other way, looked like he was avoiding you, that was a good thing. He knew he was doing the wrong thing to you, and now he feels shamed, he does not want to face you. It could be worse if he approached you and bullied you again.
Thats what i said to myself too he felt shame , because he was shocked.
"if he approached you and bullied you again"
he won't dare to bully me again because as i said in that time i was (religious..good..innocent), but now im changed and he is the one that should feel fear if i will revenge on him.
Thats what i said to myself too he felt shame , because he was shocked.
"if he approached you and bullied you again"
he won't dare to bully me again because as i said in that time i was (religious..good..innocent), but now im changed and he is the one that should feel fear if i will revenge on him.
thanks for your replies !
Don't "revenge upon" anyone. Nothing in this situation warrants revenge or even instilling fear in someone else. That's ridiculous! Two wrongs don't make a right. Now you sound obsessed.
when i was 17yo in high school i had some problems with a classmate , he was calling "gay" and insulting me with bad words , that time i didn't know what to do also i was so religious that i can't insulting him back and i didn't want to make troubles in school.
A day i was alone next to the stairs and he came with his best friend and a girl (they both were classemates too), then he told the girl to make me smell something from her hand but she didn't want first time (i had a good relation with her) he told her the second time and she put her hand so close to my nose but i don't remember if i smell or not because i was anxious.
in that time i thought he wanted me to smell a female's perfum to test me if i am a gay or not.also i didn't tell my family or anyone about all this.
Just a month ago i had seen his best friend in my way home , and i was shocked because he was coming my way then when he noticed me he stopped and turned the other side to not show his face (like if he was afraid that i will notice him but anyways i did).
now i am so obssesed about what they did make me smell that day ,and if it was something bad or not.
I don't know what should i do , and if i need to revenge on them or it's not that big deal and i just need to forget it all ?
English is my third language , i'm glad you understood some of it ^^
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Originally Posted by Parnassia
Don't "revenge upon" anyone. Nothing in this situation warrants revenge or even instilling fear in someone else. That's ridiculous! Two wrongs don't make a right. Now you sound obsessed.
Thanks guys for replies and support! i will do my best to forget it all and i hope not seeing him again.
Liking the smell of women's perfume does not make anyone gay. If I where perfume (rarely) I sorta hope all will like the smell of it.
My daughters buy men's deodorant because they hate that 'powder fresh' smell that ladies deodorant smells like. They are not gay. Well; one is bi but so what? I have three daughters & they all prefer the masculine scents.
OP, do you understand what being "gay" actually is? And that it's not really a bad thing to be?
hmm i think so but you can tell me more if you want.
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Originally Posted by coschristi
Liking the smell of women's perfume does not make anyone gay. If I where perfume (rarely) I sorta hope all will like the smell of it.
My daughters buy men's deodorant because they hate that 'powder fresh' smell that ladies deodorant smells like. They are not gay. Well; one is bi but so what? I have three daughters & they all prefer the masculine scents.
ohh idk she put her hand next to my nose , idk what they meant , and i heard him calling "gay" again and shooting and flaming with swear words.
tho if you rly don't mind me if i ask this,can you tell me how did you know that one of your daughters is bi ?
Just a month ago i had seen his best friend in my way home , and i was shocked because he was coming my way then when he noticed me he stopped and turned the other side to not show his face (like if he was afraid that i will notice him but anyways i did).
now i am so obssesed about what they did make me smell that day ,and if it was something bad or not.
I don't know what should i do , and if i need to revenge on them or it's not that big deal and i just need to forget it all ?
Please help, i need advices.
His best friend couldn't show his face to you because he was ashamed..of HIMSELF!
There's nothing you should do...just put it out of your mind and go on with your life..you can make it what you want.
Look to the future...don't dwell in the past.
Many people when they reach maturity (his best friend)regret some of the silly things they did in the past.
Just let it go...it's not a problem...you did nothing wrong...be happy.
tho if you rly don't mind me if i ask this,can you tell me how did you know that one of your daughters is bi ?
How would she not know? Mothers and children normally discuss these things.
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