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Old 12-15-2021, 10:08 AM
 
Location: Vermont
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Originally Posted by tommy64 View Post
I was in line at the self-checkout waiting to pay for a single carton of ice cream. The guy ahead of me saw my one item and suggested "You can pay for a single item at the Starbucks upfront."

I declined, partly because I don't know if anyone is even working at the coffee stand, and partly because I tend to bristle at the idea of being told what to do. The guy insisted: "No, really, I do it all the time with just one item...blah blah."

It was just one step away from turning into an ugly argument about who-knows-what's-best-for-who. Fortunately, the guy backed off and shut up.

It's no wonder there is so much violence in public on video today. Why do people do this kind of crap? Can't anyone mind their own G.D. business?
My response to the guy in front of me would have been, "Oh, thanks". End of conversation.

Of course, I don't "tend to bristle" at innocuous suggestions, and I certainly don't turn casual conversations into ugly arguments.

You can say that all of us should "stay in our lane", but you did make a public post about it.

 
Old 12-15-2021, 12:07 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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