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Oh yeah, a girl who lives in a neighborhood where the strong routinely steal from and harm the weak must not esteem herself at all if she goes out and finds a really mean, mean man and parks him on her porch. lololol. Sorry, I don't mean to laugh.
Did ALL of you guys grow up in white bread land? I'm not trying to be offensive here, but the denseness of a good deal of the comments here is just baffling ... hmmmm... I guess it makes sense. The media portrays a ridiculously cartoonish view of the poor for the most part. I suppose if you didn't grow up in the hood, you don't understand the hood, so I suppose as the Boyz in the Hood would say, you should stay the f*** out of the hood.
Where are my boys at? I know at least some of you grew up hard and can shed some light for the softies. How about your rural mountain men... can you step outside of your color biases for just a moment and realize that the hard men of the Applachians have waaay more in common with the hard men of Compton than they ever want to admit? Hint: the Compton folks have just as much good heartedness as the mountain men (in addition to nastiness). It's just not a side the media cameras capture much, and the Compton folks don't want the message to get out anyways ... if people knew they had hearts, who knows who would show up on thier front door to roll them?
Are you kidding me? Any woman who would let a low life thug into her pants is doing it because she thinks she can't get, or doesn't deserve, anyone better.
You've been sniffing the fumes from your graffiti paint too long.
Can't have sex with many ladies when your doin life behind bars, which is where most of these wothless scumbags end up. So I suppose let them get their fair share why they are free, because it does not last very long.
Most women who date gangbangers have the mental capacity of a 12 year old. They are trciked and manipulated all the time by slight of hand.
Maybe those women are in love with the violent men or they provoked it in some way but still love their man. Dysfunctional relationships is what it is!!!
The concern you have is legitimate. You may be asking yourself "should I be a the jerk or nice guy?" You may want better results with women. I am here to tell you that there is a lot of literature out there supporting either approach. I strongly encourage you to take the high road. Treat women with respect. However, never let anyone exploit you. You must demand respect as well and learn how to be assertive with women and walk when necessary. And the most important point...learn patience and self-control when it comes to sex. Do not develop a habit of lusting after a woman--despite what everyone else appears to be doing. As Ray Romano suggested, this will initiate the launch sequence. You need to be in charge of your mood and thoughts. Next, learn that you must be nicer to certain people--such as bosses and your parents. Then, when you are happily married, you can thank God that you aren't the one being embarrassed on Judge Judy or Jerry Springer.
Yeah, it makes no sense. Gangs' motivation is not sex. It is control / power / fear / status.
And you just answered the question. It isn't the violence that is the turn on for these women. It's the power, status and a lot of times money, that being in a gang evokes, similar to that of the mob only on a much smaller scale.
I think that with a lot of men and women violence it is sexualy arousing becouse the woman and maybe the man have a strong sexual sadomasochistic element in her or his makeup.
I have dated women who like being tortured and there are men who like to torture. It's rare but true.
I think that with a lot of men and women violence it is sexualy arousing becouse the woman and maybe the man have a strong sexual sadomasochistic element in her or his makeup.
I have dated women who like being tortured and there are men who like to torture. It's rare but true.
Why do guys obsess over the few women who hang out with violent men? Who cares?
I have always wondered that.All these gangbangers get tons of sex.Thats the main motive for these thugs.If women in mass decided not give it up to these men gangs would dry up overnight.I geuss violence makes alot of women horny.
Okay, who is going around bringing these threads back?
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