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My boy Ben's heart finally gave out. He left us 3/1/09 @ 10:45. I don't know what I am going to do without him. Even though we knew he had a heart condition, I still wasn't prepared. It was very sudden and he was gone in seconds.
I know we gave him a good life. He turned 3 in December. My vet said that if it wasn't for me he would never have made it that far.
I want him back so bad. He was my constant companion. Always at my side. I have never loved an animal as much as this beautiful boy.
It's so hard to say goodbye, even when we know the time will come sooner rather than later. I'm so sorry you lost your baby so young, but thank God you were there for him and gave him more time (and love!) than he ever would have had without you. My prayers are with you.
Jessie, I know how sharp the pain is. I lost my little soul mate at the age of 5, far too soon. It was sudden and totally unexpected. Like you, I am floundering at what a short time I got to share with her. The pain eases, but it takes time. Thank goodness you were there for Ben to give his short life all the love you did. He was rich with that, if not time.
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, and my prayers are with you. It doesn't matter that we know of the illness, or the conditions that we're told will take their lives....there's just no way we can really be prepared. Just know that the life he had was a loving one and that although he left much too soon, you'll see him again one day. Also know that his heart is now forever strong and he's healthy....and that he knows how much you love him. You gave Ben the best that any could hope for....love and a safe home.
Thank you all for your kind words. I stayed busy this weekend and that helped. I still "hear" him a lot. I don't seem to be able to get out of the house on time in the morning. It should be faster without him but somehow it's not.
It's funny how they become a part of the routine. And when they are not there, the routine doesn't run so smoothly any more. It will smoothe out in time. You just miss him. Hugs.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I looked at your profile and saw your handsome guy! I have put good thoughts out for you.
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I'm sure he had a wonderful life, even if it was a short one, and he'll be waiting anxiously for you at the Rainbow Bridge.
Thank you all for your kind words
