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Old 07-21-2010, 10:40 AM
 
Location: Clayton, NC
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Is there a "rule" of a certain age that kids can walk around the mall (ie: Crabtree, Southpoint, Triangle Town, etc) unsupervised without an adult? And yes, I'm talking about parents dropping off their young children to walk around the mall. I'm talking tweens, not teens. Just wondering what age would be considered "child endangerment" if any.
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Old 07-21-2010, 10:48 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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I would email the specific mall management to find out the rules.
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Old 07-21-2010, 10:51 AM
 
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As a parent, I can envision trusting my daughter enough to do this (with a friend or two) when she's 11-12, although I would respect the malls' policies if they wanted kids to be older. My daughter is only six now, so perhaps I'll change my tune when the time comes!
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Old 07-21-2010, 10:53 AM
 
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Is there a "rule" of a certain age that kids can walk around the mall (ie: Crabtree, Southpoint, Triangle Town, etc) unsupervised without an adult? And yes, I'm talking about parents dropping off their young children to walk around the mall. I'm talking tweens, not teens. Just wondering what age would be considered "child endangerment" if any.
Kids under 18 must be escorted by parent/guardian at Triangle Towne Center after 5pm on Fridays and Saturdays. Triangle Town Center - Security Policies

I don't think this is the case at Crabtree.
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Old 07-21-2010, 11:07 AM
 
Location: NC
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This just came up for me with my 12 yr old. I told her I'd take her and her friend to the mall, I'll sit and read a book or use my laptop, and she could go shopping with her friend. But, she has to check in with me at pre-determined times to say which store she's at. We'll do this in baby steps until I can trust she's mature enough. And I'll be close by if she needs me.

Also, unrelated but the next time she needs clothes we'll do the same. She will email me photos of what she wants to buy, I'll ok it and she'll do the transaction out of her budgeted $$ This is b/c it's no longer cool to spend hrs at the mall with mom clothes shopping. Fine by me too, if I have to go to Hollister one more time I'll lose my hearing
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Old 07-21-2010, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Wake County
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....if I have to go to Hollister one more time I'll lose my hearing
What is UP with that? Don't they realize we'd spend more time in there, if they'd turn it down? I like loud music, don't get me wrong...but not that loud in an enclosed area.
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Old 07-21-2010, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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I'm pretty sure that TTC is the only one with laws regarding ages and supervision. In general, I think it's usually around age 12 (plus or minus) just based on what my own teens and their friends did. I think some younger kids might be allowed to walk around with a friend for a bit if the parents are at the mall. (for example, I let my 9 year old and her 10 year old friend browse around Justice for 30 minutes while I did something else in a store close by and we met at a bench right outside that store.)
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Old 07-21-2010, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I got carded at Triangle Town Center for being alone. I am 25.
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Old 07-21-2010, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Knightdale
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I got carded at Triangle Town Center for being alone. I am 25.

This happened to me too... my friend found it quite hilarious, until the guard asked if she was my legal parent or guardian. =0)
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Old 07-21-2010, 12:45 PM
 
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Mine aren't old enough to shop at Hollister or the other tweeny shops but it's the cologne cloud that creeps out of those stores that makes me ill.....I hate walking by those shops. They smell!!! So, not only would I go deaf from the music but I'd choke from the fumes. My oldest is 5, so I think I may have a little time before we go to those places.....eeek!
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