Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > North Carolina > Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary
 [Register]
Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary The Triangle Area
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 04-03-2007, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
607 posts, read 2,430,989 times
Reputation: 202

Advertisements

Okay all my new web friends, realtors included. I need some advise.
My new house closes on April 12th. My agent said if I couldn't be there, he will do it for me proxy.
My question is this: Should I spend the $325 in airfare, plus car rental and hotel to fly back and be there for closing??? It also uses up some of my vacation. Are there important things that I should be there for at the closing???
Part of me wants to go, because..., heck, because I want to see my new town and my new home again
Is it wise though?? Is it something that I should really be there for, or can the real estate agent handle it???
Please advise.

Liz
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 04-03-2007, 11:42 AM
 
48 posts, read 176,596 times
Reputation: 20
Hi again Liz~~I'm glad you asked this question, because I'm in exactly the same dilema...I close Apr 30th, do I stay or do I go??? I don't want to spend the $$$, nor do I want to use my vac. time...but I want to see my new house too??? Can't wait to hear other's opinions on this.! BTW, where did you buy??
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
607 posts, read 2,430,989 times
Reputation: 202
Quote:
Originally Posted by 4kiddos4me View Post
Hi again Liz~~I'm glad you asked this question, because I'm in exactly the same dilema...I close Apr 30th, do I stay or do I go??? I don't want to spend the $$$, nor do I want to use my vac. time...but I want to see my new house too??? Can't wait to hear other's opinions on this.! BTW, where did you buy??
Raleigh. Well.... the physical address is Raleigh, but really it is right next to Willow Spring and Clayton. Where did you buy???
Tell me what you decide about going back for the closing.....
Liz
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 11:56 AM
 
106 posts, read 733,394 times
Reputation: 94
Save your time & money, you'll see plenty of it soon
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 11:58 AM
 
48 posts, read 176,596 times
Reputation: 20
your a scrapping buddie, right?? We'll have to figure out our distance so we can get together ASAP to scrap!...Ok, on the other note, my plan is to go for the closing, as it stands right now. My realtor told me that one of us should be there...although I will miss the inspection & walk-thru...I don't know what the big deal is...but I guess I wouldn't want anybody signing on my mortgage, except maybe an attorney, and not knowing anyone like that....I'll probably go & bite the bullett! Keep me posted what you will do! BTW, we bought in Raleigh also, we are in NE Raleigh, i think....off of Forestville Road. I have no clue how close we are>
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, North Carolina
607 posts, read 2,430,989 times
Reputation: 202
Quote:
Originally Posted by 4kiddos4me View Post
your a scrapping buddie, right?? We'll have to figure out our distance so we can get together ASAP to scrap!...Ok, on the other note, my plan is to go for the closing, as it stands right now. My realtor told me that one of us should be there...although I will miss the inspection & walk-thru...I don't know what the big deal is...but I guess I wouldn't want anybody signing on my mortgage, except maybe an attorney, and not knowing anyone like that....I'll probably go & bite the bullett! Keep me posted what you will do! BTW, we bought in Raleigh also, we are in NE Raleigh, i think....off of Forestville Road. I have no clue how close we are>
I think we are way, way far apart, but I don't care, I will drive to scrapbook
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 12:03 PM
 
567 posts, read 2,141,239 times
Reputation: 142
Nah, don't go. It won't be the same without your husband there anyway.

All this paperwork can be done by mail. From the seller's standpoint, the paperwork is easy but the buyer's paperwork is different, so ask your agent. I'm sure you can work it out long distance.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 01:16 PM
 
Location: Oxxford Hunt, Cary NC
4,478 posts, read 11,619,072 times
Reputation: 4263
I didn't attend the closing when I sold my house, but I did fly in for the purchase of my house in Apex. I wanted to be there for the walkthrough and all of that. It never occurred to me to miss it - don't you have to sign all your own loan paperwork?

When I sold my house back in VA a few months later, it didn't seem worth it to attend. The seller only has to sign a few things, and it wasn't worth a $300+ airline ticket for that.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 01:23 PM
 
106 posts, read 733,394 times
Reputation: 94
I wasn't there for the buying closing of my house in WV *nor* the selling closing.

It was my first house, and it never occurred to me to sink the money into driving all the way for it. It's just paperwork.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 04-03-2007, 01:30 PM
 
Location: in a house
3,574 posts, read 14,342,035 times
Reputation: 2400
Quote:
Originally Posted by Lizardlips View Post
Okay all my new web friends, realtors included. I need some advise.
My new house closes on April 12th. My agent said if I couldn't be there, he will do it for me proxy.
My question is this: Should I spend the $325 in airfare, plus car rental and hotel to fly back and be there for closing??? It also uses up some of my vacation. Are there important things that I should be there for at the closing???
Part of me wants to go, because..., heck, because I want to see my new town and my new home again
Is it wise though?? Is it something that I should really be there for, or can the real estate agent handle it???
Please advise.

Liz
Do you trust your agent (rhetorical question - ) Is someone trustworthy going to sign-off on the final walk through / inspection? If yes, and there's no little voice saying "you better go" - stay home and use the time for when you get here. Besides, there's really good medicine for those voices....
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:




Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > U.S. Forums > North Carolina > Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 08:57 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top