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Originally Posted by multifarious
What was the cost of the window, fridge, and furnace repair?
Consult with an expert before liquidating your home to pay for a potentially questionable college degree. Not all have equal value, despite having the same price.
I feel terrible for you, having to deal with caring for 2 generations. You must be under a lot of stress. I hope you can find some peace.
I get that, but the original question was posed under the context that the cost to rent was higher than owning. If that were the case, the fastest way to those $5000 rims is to pay less to own when renting is $1100 vs. owning is $750.
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I spent a total of $9,500 on home repairs last year. Usually it's just about $1000 a year. So it was an unusual and "brutal" year.
My main issue is that I am going to have to sell at some point, as I said, the taxes and HOA fees are rising faster than my paycheck. And even tough it's just a 1980s built townhouse, it's too much house for me alone anyway. It's a little too much for just me and my daughter.
As for being a caretaker, I kind of like taking care of others. So it's not stressful for me. I worry a lot though. I think it comes with the territory of being a natural caregiver (to worry about those you care for).
I am not planning on using the proceeds from the sale of my house to pay for my daughter's degree. Since I now telecommute (even after the pandemic ends), selling means I keep my income but it frees up $2200 a month for me (mortgage and HOA fees). That's the money I would apply towards helping pay for college for my daughter. If she gets a lot of aid, I would just save the extra money. She's planning on a degree that combines math (she loves math and is really got at it) with international relations/foreign policy. So something like a degree in economics, finance, accounting with an eye towards international business or government.
The money from the sale of my house ($250K give or take) would be invested: 80% of it would go into a total stock market fund and 20% would remain cash. Incidentally, $250K is enough to buy a house outright where I am moving to. I am moving out of a HCOLA (where I live now) to a LCOLA (back home).
I would move in with mom and split the bills with her while I take care of her but I would be rent and mortgage free. When my mom eventually passes, I will either move out of her house or buy out my brother from his share of the inheritance and stay. I will use the money from the sale of my current home to buy whatever future home I have... if I buy a future home. I may decide to keep the money invested and rent a place. It just depends on future factors unknown to me now.