CRAZY Camp #3: for Sellers, Buyers, Agents & Friendly Folks-read post 1 (percent, price)

[crazyma]

Hey Peeps.
JudyP -prayers still for Bobby and all of y'all

Tex- that is sweet about your sis- we will be praying for you too

Painter, okay guess you better call Dr. G for some help

Dogmom- won't be long!! and you will be making a new home!

roth- you hang in there. I know how you feel a lot. I am just not having a good week. I don't like it here. I feel like I am swimming around in a fish bowl and constantly bumping my head.

Here 2 yrs. this month and I don't think it will ever feel like home. I keep thinking of all the should of, would of, and could ofs and it depresses me.
At least hubby is working and schooling.
But I try to remain thankful and upbeat. And let me tell you , it isn't easy at times.
I am pretty certain this thread is one thing that has helped to keep me sane. Most of the folks back east seem to have givng up emailing....

Well I need to go. I thought maybe if I plugged a stupid coaxil in my little TV and into the cable doohickeys in the wall upstairs, I might get cableTV upstairs. But NO of course that didn't work. No idea what it is...so now I need to put stuff back away.

whatever...I hope you all sleep well tonite and may tomorow be better for all!

[dogmom]

CrazyMa, I know how you feel, like a fish out of water..at the two year point in Utah was when we actually started making friends, and then we had to sell. But it takes a while to become acclimated..I always look at it this way, we are all where we are at RIGHT NOW for a reason. Doesn't mean we will always be here, but there is a reason. For instance, your hubby is working and going to school, that might not be the case back east, I am here in my little place for a reason, probably to appreciate having a house, any house. Shelly, your move has been put on hold so you can fix yourself and get healed..Judy, maybe you are there because of family. I don't know..Roth, Lorrie, NJ, Niki, Painter, Gold, Lacey if I missed anyone I apologize..one thing I know for sure, if we had not been selling our house, I would never have met all you good friends...ok I've yukked it up enough.. All I am saying is there is a reason for everything..

[gold*dust1]

Originally Posted by crazyma

Hey Peeps.
Here 2 yrs. this month and I don't think it will ever feel like home. I keep thinking of all the should of, would of, and could ofs and it depresses me.
At least hubby is working and schooling.
But I try to remain thankful and upbeat. And let me tell you , it isn't easy at times.
I am pretty certain this thread is one thing that has helped to keep me sane. Most of the folks back east seem to have givng up emailing....
whatever...I hope you all sleep well tonite and may tomorow be better for all!

Aww Crazyma I feel for you! Sometimes I just wish I could live somewhere else, but the time just isn't right for that now. Your thread idea is a great one! I hope you get to feeling better about things

Originally Posted by dogmom

CrazyMa, I know how you feel, like a fish out of water..at the two year point in Utah was when we actually started making friends, and then we had to sell. But it takes a while to become acclimated..I always look at it this way, we are all where we are at RIGHT NOW for a reason. Doesn't mean we will always be here, but there is a reason. For instance, your hubby is working and going to school, that might not be the case back east, I am here in my little place for a reason, probably to appreciate having a house, any house. Shelly, your move has been put on hold so you can fix yourself and get healed..Judy, maybe you are there because of family. I don't know..Roth, Lorrie, NJ, Niki, Painter, Gold, Lacey if I missed anyone I apologize..one thing I know for sure, if we had not been selling our house, I would never have met all you good friends...ok I've yukked it up enough.. All I am saying is there is a reason for everything..

Very beautifully said Dogmom and soooo TRUE

[gold*dust1]

Crazy, when you say noone emails from back east-do you mean friends and family of yours? Didn't you move from FL to KS or do I have that wrong? Your kids are all in different locals correct? That's gotta be hard!
It's good to vent and get the emotions all out isn't it I have some trying relationships with a couple of relatives and I just wonder why!

We rented "Nights of Rodanthe" on V-day. It was a nice love story with Diane Lane and Richard Gere shot in NC on the coast; beautiful scenary! Just thought I would let you all know it is worth seeing.

[TexasGirl@Heart]

Originally Posted by dogmom

CrazyMa, I know how you feel, like a fish out of water..at the two year point in Utah was when we actually started making friends, and then we had to sell. But it takes a while to become acclimated..I always look at it this way, we are all where we are at RIGHT NOW for a reason. Doesn't mean we will always be here, but there is a reason. For instance, your hubby is working and going to school, that might not be the case back east, I am here in my little place for a reason, probably to appreciate having a house, any house. Shelly, your move has been put on hold so you can fix yourself and get healed..Judy, maybe you are there because of family. I don't know..Roth, Lorrie, NJ, Niki, Painter, Gold, Lacey if I missed anyone I apologize..one thing I know for sure, if we had not been selling our house, I would never have met all you good friends...ok I've yukked it up enough.. All I am saying is there is a reason for everything..

Barb, you are so right. Not in our time, but in God's time... There's a reason why my house didn't sell And am I ever glad it didn't because I would be royally screwed if it had. Everyone will get to where they should be in His time. I'm certain of it!

I had to make one of your statements in your post BOLD because it is exactly how I feel about each and everyone of you.

[TexasGirl@Heart]

Originally Posted by crazyma

Here 2 yrs. this month and I don't think it will ever feel like home. I keep thinking of all the should of, would of, and could ofs and it depresses me.
At least hubby is working and schooling.
But I try to remain thankful and upbeat. And let me tell you , it isn't easy at times.
I am pretty certain this thread is one thing that has helped to keep me sane. Most of the folks back east seem to have givng up emailing....

Hang in there--like Barb said...we are where we are supposed to be at this given time. This thread has definitely helped keep me sane. I am so glad I found it and got to know each of you. You are all unique and special. Just think of the FUN we are going to have when we finally make plans to meet one another!

Damn these drugs--it's 4 am and I am WIDE AWAKE!!!

[TexasGirl@Heart]

Originally Posted by gold*dust1

Crazy, when you say noone emails from back east-do you mean friends and family of yours? Didn't you move from FL to KS or do I have that wrong? Your kids are all in different locals correct? That's gotta be hard!
It's good to vent and get the emotions all out isn't it I have some trying relationships with a couple of relatives and I just wonder why!

We rented "Nights of Rodanthe" on V-day. It was a nice love story with Diane Lane and Richard Gere shot in NC on the coast; beautiful scenary! Just thought I would let you all know it is worth seeing.

Gold, I've wanted to see that--think I will rent it when my sister gets here. It will give us something to do while I'm recovering.

I too have some difficult relationships within my own family...I try not to over analyze it...just chalk it up to them being rude and irresponsible (2 younger sisters)

[LaceyEx]

Morning all- the thing is we choose our friends not our family!

NJSocks and Hammy-where are you?

DogMom-beautifully said.

[njsocks]

Originally Posted by LaceyEx

Morning all- the thing is we choose our friends not our family!

NJSocks and Hammy-where are you?

DogMom-beautifully said.

thanks for asking Lacey and Dogmom! Been a mess here. Lots of sht but cannot say too much.... Thank you for thinking of us!! I appreciate it.

I hope you guys are good. Showing today at 10am..Of course they are looking at a ton of other homes..Another one that wanted 3 hr. window. I told realtor N-O. I said 10-1030a, I am tired of it...especially not even getting fb anymore.

Judy I am sorry about your nephew...He is in my prayers...
I will read more later girls.. My husband is such a mess...
thank you all guys.

[the painter]

Morning everyone, You all are gonna make me cry with all the sweetness Okay feel better? Not much going on, no excitement, no news, no nothing, and all is quiet well as quiet as it gets around here. So let me throw this out for opinions:

Our whole move was based on the Vet school for dd. Was told that the plan has changed and she will be moving to another local for 2+yrs WITH her boytoy and living with her dad, while she is attending school. Then she will transfer to the vet school Now what? I am now reevaluating things, smaller house, selling horses ect. This has thrown me alot to think about. i am not a happy camper. This opens another whole can of worms, this "boy" can not hold a job and I refuse to support him which means my dd is in for a long hard road. Told her from the get go that I would help with the finances at long as the boy was not part of it. Now what?