Poll: Did you or your SO make the first move? (wife, women)

[genx]

1. You're female and asked out your SO first
2. You're male and you made the first move
3. You're female and your SO made the first move
4. You're male and your SO made the first move

How long have you been together?

[TKramar]

I'm male--and she always made it.

[filihok]

I'm male and women usually approach me

Current relationship 3 and a half years

[2RUGGED4YOU]

Originally Posted by genx

1. You're female and asked out your SO first
2. You're male and you made the first move

How long have you been together?

For me it has been about 60/40. I asked 60 percent of the time and they asked 40 percent of the time. I think I do better when I ask as I don't look easy or wimpy to them!

[findinghope]

he asked me to dance, that was 15 yrs ago

[TheImportersWife]

I'm a female and he contacted me through a matchmaking site 11 years ago. If he only knew then what he knows now.

[genx]

Originally Posted by TheImportersWife

I'm a female and he contacted me through a matchmaking site 11 years ago. If he only knew then what he knows now.

Interesting comment, what would have hindsight made him do differently?

[Driller1]

I am a female. I made the first move.

Hubby was repairing a water well. (I had NO idea what he was doing)

I could see he had a lot of expensive equipment on the job site.

I was tried of being poor.

So, I went for a little bike ride.

[Jasmine728]

So howcome the poll only has two choices but the post has 4 choices? Doesnt seem like the first responders that are male and the female made the move... could even vote?

[TKramar]

Right...I couldn't vote in the poll.

Females that let the guy make the first move couldn't vote either.