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Old 06-13-2010, 01:04 AM
 
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I would like to get back together with my ex boyfriend. When , how , can I tell when is a good time to have sex again. He seems ready, I am not. Help!
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Old 06-13-2010, 01:06 AM
 
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I would like to get back together with my ex boyfriend. When , how , can I tell when is a good time to have sex again. He seems ready, I am not. Help!
If you dumped him? Good luck with that!LOL.......
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Old 06-13-2010, 01:09 AM
 
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no, he dumped me
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Old 06-13-2010, 01:21 AM
 
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no, he dumped me
I wouldn't be too quick with it. It could just be a plan to get some easy sex and move on again? I would go for at least 4-5 dates and maybe more to make sure that he is serious!
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Old 06-13-2010, 06:23 AM
 
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I would like to get back together with my ex boyfriend. When , how , can I tell when is a good time to have sex again. He seems ready, I am not. Help!
Certainly not until you're both ready. Usually it's best to keep ex's as ex's.
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Old 06-13-2010, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Never.
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Old 06-13-2010, 01:59 PM
 
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Are you actually together again officially? If not , don't until then and even then.. not until you are ready.
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Old 06-13-2010, 02:04 PM
 
Location: La Jolla, CA
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General advice only, may have a few exceptions:

Don't expect an encore performance from a failed relationship.
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Old 06-13-2010, 02:37 PM
 
Location: California
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He's just using you. Unless he's apologized for the heartache he's caused and is willing to give it another go around. Personally, I don't do on and off again relationships--they almost never work out in the end, but there always exceptions...

Don't have sex with him unless you two are exclusive and you're ready.
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Old 06-13-2010, 02:48 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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You are asking how much time should you wait to have ex again but youre not telling us why you two broke for example which isnt a minor detail in ni opinion.
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