Why is it so hard for women to say "would you like to go on a date with me" ? (marry, husband)
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I was talking to a friend the other day about a former coworker of ours.She had asked my friend why I had never asked her out on a date.We liked each other and got along very well.She told my friend that she wished she could have had a relationship with me but it never came to pass because I never asked her out and I moved out of state.I was going to ask but I never pulled the trigger for some reason.I would have never moved if I had a girlfriend at the time.I know the canned response is 'if you really wanted her you would have asked'.Why doesn't that also apply to women?
I'm female and I have probably done 95% of the asking in the dates and relationships I've had. Certainly in the three long term relationships in my life, I was the initiator for each of them. I simply don't have the patience to wait for a man to ask me. I'd rather not worry about it, and do the asking. That way if it's a no, I don't waste time waiting around.
One should NEVER regret putting ones self out there. No one wants to get to the end of the road and look at opportunities missed. For ME, I just have no interest in males who don't have the "apples". I'm an "apples required" kinda gal. /lol
For me, I would not be interested in a gal that feels entitled to be courted. Princess mentality? Did you every stop and think what opportunities you might have missed by not asking out what would have been your perfect soul mate? Strange it is one sided that only the guy misses out if he does not ask.
Sounds like you need to grow some peaches, so the guy with apples and you can make a fruit salad.
I had no problem expressing my interest first and leave everything else in his hands.
We've discussed this topic more than once before and some women just like to be pursued. I was a very stubborn girl in my dating days and could never ask a man out first for the life of me.
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