Would you be able to date/marry an actor? (jealous)
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I doubt it. Most of them seem shallow and the long separations, easy morals, alcohol and drugs everywhere probably spell a death null for most marriages/relationships.
I don't think I could take the fame. I would not like people following us always trying to take pictures. I would not like the constant drama. I like being private and just living my life, so the fame would make me say no.
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My privacy is too important to me and the sleaz throwing themselves at some of the actors would get on my nerves too much. Too much drama for me. No way.
What about actors in general, regardless if they doff their duds on camera or not?
Heck, no. Having spent a lot of time around actors, and being related to one, here's what I've observed about MOST actors.
1) Actors are deeply insecure, which is why it's Me, Me, Me, Me all the time. I mean, think about the impulse that makes them want to get up and perform in front of thousands, even millions of people. Almost without exception, the actors I've known have been pure id as a result.
2) Actors are always on stage, even when they're not. Spend time getting to know one, and you keep peeling away the layers of them only to realize that it's all a role they're playing, no matter what the situation is. You really have to devote a lot of time to finding their core personality. Even then, they switch on the actor circuitry when you're dealing with them, so you never know if what they say is genuine or not.
3) With the exception of the top 1%, actors are financially unstable at all times.
4) Actors tend to be creatures of the moment. The fact that their gruesome addiction and relationship problems are played out on the pages of People Magazine is only partly to be blamed on the paparazzi. The truth is, these people make really awful decisions in their lives. After all, how many really long-term marriages do you know about in Hollywood? A tiny number, a minute percentage compared to the 50% success rates of marriages among others.
Hey, that's not to say that lawyers, doctors, accountants, and Wal-Mart cashiers don't make stupid decisions. It's just that actors seem to make them at far higher rates than any other profession.
Most people marry actors/actresses these days anyway. That's why we have all this drama on this forurm - These are The Days of Our Lives.
Seems most people have no problem with the actual marriage, it's what comes next that bothers them.
No...I need security and stability in a spouse. I couldn't deal with no knowing if/when the next paycheck was going to come, where in the world the next job would be, etc.
Oh, I tell ya, those beautiful actresses are practically beating my door down but lately I've been sticking with runway models because they don't have to shoot those sexy love scenes with actors who might try to steal them away from me.
With all the intimate scenes, could you handle it?
Unless he was a porn star, I don't see how this could really be a problem. However, I don't really find artsy/drama guys that personally attractive, that'd be the bigger impediment.
Ohhh PTC, you love asking intriguing questions. Honestly, as long as the actor comes home and makes love to me like that, hellllz yes LOL
On a serious note though - I would have more of a hard time with all of their time being invested in their career vs their relationsip. I get that they are acting and it's a professional thing, that part wouldn't really irk me.
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