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Maybe she's an opportunist. She may not have something specific she wants to use others for but as problems come up she has an army of potential saviors around at all times.
It takes a lot of energy to be the center of attention, I know I could never pull it off. Some people are just gifted with excess energy and are aware that the friends they make are just temporary. They have a sort of salesman/politician mentality. They befriend everyone and then go off to meet new people and places. They are always on the move, never staying still too long. Some do it for gain, and some just enjoy meeting everyone in the world. And the more they do it, the better at it they become.
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I've known enough people with charisma to see that it's far more valuable than looks or youth. It's one of those things you either have or you don't. You can't acquire it.
We call what you are talking about IT. Some people have IT and others don't. Everyone wants to be around them, and most people don't know why, but there is a charm about them.
It takes a lot of energy to be the center of attention, I know I could never pull it off. Some people are just gifted with excess energy and are aware that the friends they make are just temporary. They have a sort of salesman/politician mentality. They befriend everyone and then go off to meet new people and places. They are always on the move, never staying still too long. Some do it for gain, and some just enjoy meeting everyone in the world. And the more they do it, the better at it they become.
That is very very true. I can feel the energy that people create and I love to suck it up and I enjoy it very much and others really vibe it as well so I'm giving people back what they need as well. Sometimes when I am with my husband and we meet people he asks me how I knew a person and he is surprised when I tell him I just met them just now.....since they started talking to me like they knew me
I'm the life of the party!LOL....... It has always came naturally for me. A lot of the time I don't even know what I am doing. It just comes out! I am pretty sure I could entertain a room full of blue hair bingo players!LOL...... Young or old I can always find something that grips them! My friends always look forward to me showing up at late night wrenching sessions. That is when the fun stuff starts. Sometimes we pull all nighters and when you are covered in grease and parts aren't fitting right, you need a laugh. Check.... we have that covered dudes!LOL........
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