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Old 06-17-2010, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Your butt hurts? What the heck were you doing? lol
Don't you know how painful it can be when you laugh your butt off??
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Old 06-17-2010, 10:03 PM
 
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Your butt hurts? What the heck were you doing? lol
I sat on a screwdriver!LOL.... No, not today at least!
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Old 06-17-2010, 10:12 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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**Yawn** this forum is like the kiddie pool.... Go into a herpes/STD forum; now those kind of forums will make your head spin.
I had no idea there was one. Though I have absolutely no need to visit that forumn. But I'm glad it exists for people like you who have a need.
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Old 06-17-2010, 10:19 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Word.
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Old 06-17-2010, 11:01 PM
 
Location: the good ol' USA where freedom rings
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**Yawn** this forum is like the kiddie pool.... Go into a herpes/STD forum; now those kind of forums will make your head spin.
Oooooh, where can I find that forum?
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Old 06-17-2010, 11:06 PM
 
Location: the good ol' USA where freedom rings
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Darn, I thought the rant was over but...

Why is everyone so darn concerned with other's likes and dislikes?!

What does it matter? They are obviously NOT for you.

Do some of you actually think you should be able to dictate other peoples likes, dislikes, preferences or requirements?
People like to know that their thoughts and beliefs are shared by others, reinforced, and validated. They want validation that they are normal.

Threads such as Am I Good Looking - or should I wear this and that - is a way for the poster to get opinions from a wide variety of people.

Your mother would never tell you that you look like a creature from black lagoon, but luckily there is no shortage Simon Cowell types who tell you like it is. It's a way of getting a reality check on your beliefs.
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Old 06-18-2010, 03:53 AM
 
Location: The Jar
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Yes, we are (ALL) the sum of the choices we've made.
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Old 06-18-2010, 04:42 AM
 
Location: CasaMo
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Some people are just spoiled and were never told that the "life's not fair" rule applies to THEM too.
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Old 06-18-2010, 06:18 AM
 
Location: Outside always.
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I agree with your thread. I had thought of posting something kind of like this, but I didn't think anyone would pay attention. Yes, everyone should live and let live. Also, there is someone for everyone, if everybody would just believe in themselves.
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Old 06-18-2010, 06:26 AM
 
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Darn, I thought the rant was over but...

Why is everyone so darn concerned with other's likes and dislikes?!

If someone wants to date someone with money, big boobs, tall, piercings, the same gender, likes to cook, subservient, dominant.....

What does it matter? They are obviously NOT for you.

Do some of you actually think you should be able to dictate other peoples likes, dislikes, preferences or requirements?

If your requirements of a relationship makes the dating pool darn small - it doesn't mean others should change so you are in the running.

And BTW, for those who think no one likes you because of (really pick anything), boob size, earnings, what car you drive, height...

Yeah, no. From what I've seen here it's probably your attitude, which oozes forth no matter how much you think you hide it.

Yes, some things do in fact make it more difficult to date. Over weight MAY limit your options. Really ugly, too. Those are hard things to deal with, but if your only empasizing on one thing others will too.

Trust me, I'm no polly-anna. Life is hard, relationships are hard. But it seems like a lot are doing their best to make it as hard as possible.
well said.

I think if society practiced self-acceptance more, there would be a lot less sadness in our society.
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