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Of course we do, men are human beings. I "fantasize" a lot more about being in love, than "having sex."
Most of my thoughts are about football and/or beer, though. Mostly about how to combine playing football, with drinking beer. BRB, going to get a patent.
Do men fantasize about love relationships with women?? NOT sex... I mean love, romance, etc.
I don't. I rely on memories of past relationships, but I don't fantasize about "possibilities". Probably why I let them approach me, instead of thinking about what could happen.
I could take it or leave it. If it happens, it happens, and that's great. But if it doesn't, I'm not all that concerned.
Do men fantasize about love relationships with women?? NOT sex... I mean love, romance, etc.
If you mean, do you fantasize about women in lovey dovey ways. That's a negative. Maybe your dreams go that route, or quick thoughts in the begining of relationships flow like that. But usually our fantasies are like porno's. I don't day time fantasize about holding hands walking on the beach. I fantasize about straddling some hot as s chick, correction make that two hot as s chicks, correction again make that three hot chicks in a funky twisted deviant little menage a quatro.....lol.
My daytime fantasies beyond women go something like this: Ten seconds to go "my last name" has the ball. Kobe Bryant switches to "said name". "Said name" jukes left fakes right, goes baseline. Whoa, what a dunk. Bryant almost got his hand broken trying to block it.....He, he he he..Ok, so I dream alot.
or: "Said name" is up to bat. Strassburg has shut out his last seven batters. Game tied in the nineth. "Said" name hits a solo home run. And the Yankees win.....The Yankee's win again......
Or, when I really want to day dream, "Said name" just dropped Matt Hughes on his face, following it up with a vicious right that drops the "pri ck", err guy......
I cant speak for every guy but I do naturally fantasize about having love/romance with girls Ive interacted with and have become interested in.
HOWEVER I try hard not to, because the chance of any specific female being interested is so slim. Us men have to go through more rejection than most girls do so if we stopped to fantasize about being in love with a girl we like the rejections will be more painful. I'm not sure (this isn't typical topic of conversation when I'm talking to dudes) but i think lots of guys fall into this category of thinking.
I cant speak for every guy but I do naturally fantasize about having love/romance with girls Ive interacted with and have become interested in.
HOWEVER I try hard not to, because the chance of any specific female being interested is so slim. Us men have to go through more rejection than most girls do so if we stopped to fantasize about being in love with a girl we like the rejections will be more painful. I'm not sure (this isn't typical topic of conversation when I'm talking to dudes) but i think lots of guys fall into this category of thinking.
That's the attitude. And thank god for guys like you, you make it much easier for guys like me to elimate any competition...
Seriously dude, lighten up on yourself. What is with all these threads about men with a complete and lack of utter confidence. Im starting to wonder if today's society is creating a bunch of wimps. If you talk like that, no wonder you have such low self worth. Man up and get a little confidence. It could do wonders for your sex life.
Last edited by supermanpansy; 06-20-2010 at 12:34 PM..
...Im starting to wonder if today's society is creating a bunch of wimps. ...
Wimps and thugs. Not sure about the girls, but raising boys in households without a proper Father to learn behavior from is a big problem. Not that Single Mothers are unable to instill values in their sons its just that most do not. We now have a Generation of men raised in broken households. I think it is also bad for the girl children to lack a proper Father figure as well.
There was always broken Families in the past but it was not epidemic as today.
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