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You also don't have to have these "surprise" babies. I'm pro-choice so to me abortion really makes sense in a lot of these situations. A woman who is neither financially nor emotionally ready to care for a child, and where the man is not going to be involved, should really consider having an abortion. Have your children when you're ready to give them your all -- preferably with father & mother equally involved.
I'm pro choice too. You can choose to close your legs or open them.
Hello? I was with my ex for several years before we married, and didn't have kids until after marriage.....so now what? Yes...my ex is 100% to blame...which is why his own grown children refuse to speak to him....and they actually texted me a "Happy Father's Day" a while ago.
So you stayed with a loser for several years. Doesn't say too much about you...Possibly you alienated them against him? naw... gotta be >
You also don't have to have these "surprise" babies. I'm pro-choice so to me abortion really makes sense in a lot of these situations. A woman who is neither financially nor emotionally ready to care for a child, and where the man is not going to be involved, should really consider having an abortion. Have your children when you're ready to give them your all -- preferably with father & mother equally involved.
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I'm pro choice too. You can choose to close your legs or open them.
And I'm guessing that means women AND men??? He can choose to keep his zipper zipped too!
Now that Fathers Day is over, can we have some real talk about how women get over on us men. On Mothers Day, the theme is giving mom a day of rest, a spa day or weekend away from kids. On Fathers day, its about the kids spending time with Dad. And mom still gets a day or weekend of rest away from the kids. So basically... every day is mother's day. Im just saying. Thoughts?
I was just on FB and read a few status updates from single moms telling each other happy fathers day. How they're both mother and father so they deserve to be celebrated on this day also. Then there were other updates talking about deadbeat dads and the hate they have for their fathers. I was like wow at all the 'father' bashing.
Do you think single mothers deserve recognition on fathers day?
Nope. Father's day is not for angry and bitter single moms. Mothers already have their day.
Now that Fathers Day is over, can we have some real talk about how women get over on us men. On Mothers Day, the theme is giving mom a day of rest, a spa day or weekend away from kids. On Fathers day, its about the kids spending time with Dad. And mom still gets a day or weekend of rest away from the kids. So basically... every day is mother's day. Im just saying. Thoughts?
What do you think of his comment?
Public announcements of bitterness and resentment toward the person you should love most in the world? Not much. Sounds like a divorce waiting to happen.
Calipoppy: While I have little sympathy for women who keep having children with irresponsible men, I find appalling your suggestion that a man bears no moral responsibility towards his children unless he was married to the mother when they were conceived. Men who are absent from their children's lives certainly don't deserve to be celebrated as fathers -- or have the mothers tell their children what swell guys their absent fathers are.
For the record, I do not feel this way about the absentee fathers.
Men who "donate" all around town and create multiple illegitimate children without taking financial, emotional and physical care of those children are scum.
However, women need to be smarter, take responsibility for their own bodies and make better decisions than to have a child with men like this considering that we (women) are the ones who ultimately end up having to take care of the child whether the father is in the picture or not.
Thinking of Father's Day makes me sad. I miss my Father
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Possibly you alienated them against him? naw... gotta be >
