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Old 06-28-2010, 08:46 AM
 
Location: Bayshore Drive Newport Beach
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313 View Post
I just saw her pic on your profile. WOW! She is very attractive.
U lucky dog you...
Now do you understand why I'd get jealous so bad

 
Old 06-28-2010, 08:48 AM
 
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Originally Posted by yankeegirl313 View Post
I just saw her pic on your profile. WOW! She is very attractive.
U lucky dog you...
I don't know if 'lucky' is the word I was thinking.

Most women on here would take the cars and the house and money well, and a little jealous husband.

She is attractive but if another rich guy comes along that has more money let's say...a private jet or something...she may be gone WITH... half his money and possessions.
 
Old 06-28-2010, 08:49 AM
 
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I agree. Wow..... You need to be a very confident man to be married to such beauty, which clearly he is not.
And on the flip side--he said she is also very intense/possessive.
 
Old 06-28-2010, 08:59 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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And why do you have a problem looking for professional help? I addressed that earlier.

You came onto this forum looking for answers and you received good answers. If you can't sift them then what's your problem? Have more questions then ask!
 
Old 06-28-2010, 09:09 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Now do you understand why I'd get jealous so bad
No, I don`t. She is married to you my friend. YOU. There isn`t much you can do about other men wanting to look her way because she is attractive. It seems to me, that you lack self confidence within yourself.
From the looks at your house and cars, and...you have a beautiful woman, what more could you possibly want, or need?
Be happy with what you got man, and stop with these insecurities.
 
Old 06-28-2010, 09:35 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Originally Posted by NewportBeachGuy View Post
Now do you understand why I'd get jealous so bad
Don't use it as an excuse, she loved you enough to marry YOU.
Ultimately, what happens is the loss of a relationship or in your case, possibly your marriage and you've made your worst fears come true. If your not willing to react differently, you'll continue to repeat the same patterns, over and over until you do.

Abusive Relationship Facts - Emotional, Verbal and Relationship Abuse and Control

Controlling jealousy

Overcoming Jealousy
 
Old 06-28-2010, 09:44 AM
 
Location: Bayshore Drive Newport Beach
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Don't use it as an excuse, she loved you enough to marry YOU.
Ultimately, what happens is the loss of a relationship or in your case, possibly your marriage and you've made your worst fears come true. If your not willing to react differently, you'll continue to repeat the same patterns, over and over until you do.

Abusive Relationship Facts - Emotional, Verbal and Relationship Abuse and Control

Controlling jealousy

Overcoming Jealousy

Thanks I am going to give this a real good read

thank you for the link.
 
Old 06-28-2010, 10:12 AM
 
Location: NYC
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If you are a pilot as your profile claims, it seems to me she could easily cheat on you during your many overnight trips. No need to get upset over any interactions she has with men right there in front of you.
 
Old 06-28-2010, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Heart of Oklahoma
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I get really angry when i see other men trying to hit on my woman I get even more pissed off when I catch her smiling at other men !!!

Am I going insane? is this some kind of jealousy rage? IF so, how do i deal with my jealousy?

I get so angry i could literally kill some guy with my bare hands when i see him trying to hit on my woman.

I don't want her to go out or have any friends I want to keep her home all to myself.

Am I too jealous?

She is the same as me she gets really cheesed off when other women are talking to me. Will our relationship work? Will we last? I dont want to lose her.
You will not last if you don't "let" her have friends. That's about the most retarded thing I've ever heard. She is not your dog, therefore you don't own her. You can't make her stay at home b/c your too insecure and lack trust to let her go out with her friends. Guys like you sicken me. *barf*
 
Old 06-28-2010, 10:42 AM
 
Location: Heart of Oklahoma
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Which one is your girlfriend? They obviously aren't the same chick...
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